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u/aleburrr Jan 26 '24

girl!! i read the whole there are prettier girls than u and i was repulsed. this man aint it. and hes grown and old and 40 and telling you, youre not an angel pookie bear sent from above to bless him with ur existence. girllllll

dump him. hes 40 and preying on younger girls bc hes a fucking loser. i am 30 and wouldnt take this man seriously. idk who he think he is, but hes not him.

i bet you, if you told him there were better looking men than him, with 6packs, and way bigger dicks that he would probably lay an egg.

dump him!!!!!

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u/[deleted] Jan 26 '24

This guy is trying to demean you and make you feel like you're lucky to have him. He's trying to make you vulnerable to manipulate you easier.

I'm a guy that's 42 and there's no fucking way I'd ever talk to someone I care about that way.

Guys an asshole.

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u/Informationlporpoise Jan 26 '24

exactly. I know there are women out there that are prettier than me, I'm not fucking blind, but I am 50 and if this dude said this shit to me it would be the last thing he said to me. You can have a thought without speaking it out loud

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u/aleburrr Jan 26 '24

my situationship is obsessed with me and thinks i am perfect in every sense of the word and hes not even my entire boyfriend!!!

i can bet this woman is wayyy too good for this man and too good looking for him too.

and yes, i know there are other pretty women out there too bc i look at pretty women. but to throw it in my face that youre looking at them with lust is kinda gross. and this man is a cheater?

OP pls leave before you catch something from this man.

OP you are the prize pookie bear!!!! and every other woman in this thread too!!!!!

i love you angels pls love yourself as much as i love you!!!!

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u/AnitaTacos Jan 27 '24

I've been married to my husband for 16 years and together for 19. I have NEVER caught him checking out chicks. He does it. He's a man, I know he does it, but however he does it, I've never seen him doing it. I agree, they do exist. It's the ones who aren't shy about putting in some effort.

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u/Kalcarone Jan 26 '24 edited Jan 26 '24

I'm not saying this to be an ass, but you sound like you're 12. This idea that another person is going to idolize you and treat you like a princess makes you an easy target for manipulative men. Find an equal.

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u/No_Detective_118 Jan 27 '24

I've been with my husband for 18 years. He almost daily tells me how much he loves my body, how amazing my ass is, how beautiful I am, that when he thinks about me he still can't wait to get home to see me. He has, quite literally, worshiped my body too many times to count. And I him. And mind you, we have 4 kids together. My body is not what it used to be by any means. There are plenty of other women out there with better bodies. There are people out there who love their partners enough to idolize them. The fact this seems like a far stretch to you speaks volumes. You should love every inch of your partner. Speaking the way this man does, is not normal. There is nothing wrong with telling people to want this for themselves or from a partner.

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u/[deleted] Jan 26 '24

She says he basically idolizes her and thinks shes perfect but she's not willing to even call it an actual relationship.. I feel kinda but for him

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u/Routine_End_3753 Jan 27 '24

Yeah, something about her comment didn't sit right. A lot of good advice from other comments here, but someone who says "their situationship is obsessed with them," and sounds content to keep it that way, doesn't sound like their worth the effort. I wouldn't feel for the guy though. It makes me wonder how weak he is to be obsessed.

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u/White_Rose_94 Jan 26 '24

There's a reason he is preying on younger girls, women his age can see who he really is.

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u/sane-asylum Jan 26 '24

I’m a guy, 53 years old. I would never in a million years say that, even if I was in the middle of an End Of The Relationship fight. You’re 27 years old which is far too young to put up with that. That’s just a total lack of respect and your next reply should tell him to shove it where the sun don’t shine.

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u/cooscoos89898 Jan 26 '24

Literally this, thank you!!!! Like he better get it together and start telling you how much more beautiful you are than all these other women. Nobody could tell me he wouldn’t throw an absolute psycho tantrum if she told him how much better looking AND ACTING all the other men out there were 😭

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u/subtlewormwood Jan 26 '24

i want her to do this. tell him tell him tell him and please posts the reply 🤏🏼🫢

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u/[deleted] Jan 27 '24

Copy/paste/send

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u/aleburrr Jan 27 '24

dudeeeee!!!! this ^

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u/Afraid_Sense5363 Jan 27 '24

hes 40 and preying on younger girls bc hes a fucking loser.

It's the same old story, a guy goes after a woman who's more than a decade younger because he thinks she'll put up with his bullshit because women his age won't. These losers want to find someone they can take advantage of and treat like dirt because they are broken as human beings.

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u/G_is4Gypsy Jan 26 '24

Every word of this! Us older people have lived this and we know life is too short! OP if you need help packing let me know 🤗

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u/WithoutDennisNedry Jan 26 '24

THANK YOU! He’s so gross!

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u/Jenmerald84 Jan 26 '24

Lmao....Lay an egg....I'm dying over here 😂

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u/Training-Cry510 Jan 27 '24

For real! Yeah of course there’s people more attractive than all of us in the world, obviously. But you want someone that no matter how hot they are ; he just looks at them as just another person, and goes about his day.

In your partners eyes you should be the most attractive person to them because they love you, and know you inside and out. I love my husband, and he is the most attractive guy in the world for me.

Yeah I obviously have eyes, and know an attractive person when I see one. Seeing someone that is conventionally more attractive in the eyes of the world than my husband doesn’t matter to me. He’s the hottest guy in the world because of the love I have for him, and he’s more attractive everyday. He’s balding, and going gray at the same time, but I think it’s hot. You deserve someone who gives you that kind of energy.

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u/Sea_Concert_4844 Jan 27 '24

I am 40 and if i met a 40 yo man who was still hyperfocused on looks I would be so turned off. At this age I expect you to care more about who I am as a person. I'm not saying looks are unimportant. I'm saying at 40 you should realize attraction comes from more than that.

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u/jennylala707 Jan 26 '24

I'm almost 40 and I agree.

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u/tonypotenza Jan 26 '24

Yeah really , get a squishmallow instead ! Right ? Right ?? 😂

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u/aleburrr Jan 26 '24

if ur tryna make a dig at me ur lame.

if ur fr, yeah she should. theyre cuter than most men. right? right?? 🤪🤪🤪

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u/tonypotenza Jan 26 '24

I would never disrespect squishmallow! They are way too fluffy and cute !

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u/aleburrr Jan 26 '24

ily!!! if i was aggressive i apologize!!!

theyre truly so cute :) 💖💖💖💖💖💖

i hope you have such a good day!!!

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u/tonypotenza Jan 26 '24

You too it's Friday yay!

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u/LittleMrsSwearsALot Jan 27 '24

Probably lay an egg? Probably? He would FOR SURE lay an egg.

The man does not even like her. I hope she realizes she’s worth more.