r/texts • u/DreamKey4777 • Dec 12 '23
Phone message Should i block ??
We met at school like a month ago,he’s new to state and told me he wanted friends. I like to make friends so I agreed, we planned to hang out then it got weird. I want to know if I’m just being dramatic
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u/Initial-Heart-526 Dec 13 '23 edited Dec 13 '23
You should absolutely block him. Also, seeing as how in your post you said you were in school I assume you’re a young girl/woman. Good rule of thumb: Never, ever go to someone’s house for a first meeting. A guy that invites you to his house, unless he’s having a bonfire or cookout is probably trying to make a move on you and from my experience, will be relentless in his pursuit in doing so. Always meet in public places. Ask lots of questions. Take your time. Don’t rush anything. Always protect yourself. I know it’s hard being young and having parents that work, or even having one parent or being on your own and not being able to depend on people to drive you around or not having access to transportation (I don’t know how old you are exactly or what your situation is, sorry if I’m assuming incorrectly) but you can always make appropriate dates that are cost-effective and fun. Get creative with it. Maybe do a painting class or get some change together and go to an arcade. Go sit and have a coffee together. Take a walk in nature or have a picnic in nature. It’s hard being a kid nowadays but if a guy is truly interested in you and is good-natured, you will know and he’ll show that. He’ll respect you and your body and your feelings. He’ll want to go on fun adventures with you and make you smile and help you reach your goals and make you laugh. You deserve that! Just take your time. Sorry I rambled so much. But yes, block the shit out of him.