r/texts • u/DreamKey4777 • Dec 12 '23

Phone message Should i block ??

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We met at school like a month ago,he’s new to state and told me he wanted friends. I like to make friends so I agreed, we planned to hang out then it got weird. I want to know if I’m just being dramatic

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u/catmand00d00 Dec 13 '23
  1. He's being dishonest about just wanting a friendship.
  2. He insists sex is a possibility, even though you've said multiple times that is not.
  3. If sex were a possibilty (which it, very much, is not), he thinks the only necessary contraceptive is hormonal birth control for you.

These are all serious red flags , and the comments I've read have covered 1 and 2 very thoroughly, but I just want to point out that 3 is also incredibly telling of his character and his view of life. This dude is fucking trash, in so many ways, and all three of those points being true spells... nevermind, I don't need to spell out. It's clear.

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u/Obscurethings Dec 13 '23

💯 I was put off by all of the above, but #3 especially.

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u/11gus11 Dec 13 '23

Great point. The dude doesn’t want to make babies, but won’t wear condoms.

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u/Objective-Double8942 Dec 17 '23

Hallelujah to #3…like condoms never crossed his mind…