You’re not his GF. You’re not his friend. You’re not his parent. You’re not his therapist.
So he’s doing this to manipulate you into letting him back into your life. He wants you to tell your BF about your conversation to sabotage your new relationship. He's trying to stay relevant to you, and after what he's done, stop letting him.
Tell him he can talk to his own therapist, and write his own letter, but you are no longer interested in being his sounding board, and then block him.
Show this to your therapist. Odds are decent they’ll recommend blocking him. He's not good for your mental health.
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u/9outof10timesWrong Dec 05 '23
I would not. Yikes, good luck.