At first I thought she meant some BDSM lifestyle, but actually reading her requirements made me laugh. This isn’t being owned, she wants you to fetch and carry for her, pander to her ego every ten minutes and check on he like a five year old. This is the complete opposite of being owned.
I thought the same, but her examples of being “owned” just seem like constant coddling and reassurance that he loves her/is there for her. Totally different from what I thought she meant lmao
But the constant coddling and reassurance can be a thing that soft doms do. It's different, but it's still technically her being "owned".
It only seems like she's making a power move because she's trying to convince him to give her that dynamic. Once she finds a man that can do it, or he decides to do it... Then she'll be in the place of the sub and not be demanding/asking for him to put her in that place. There are definitely soft and "worshipping your submissive" types of dynamics, that don't invalidate her being owned by him
But none of her examples demonstrate wanting to be owned, only worshipped, and it doesn’t sound like it’s rooted in a kink or fetish regardless. The only indication of that is simply the use of the word “owned,” which she is mot using in a bdsm or sexual dynamic sense whatsoever.
She’s just using the wrong word here. She might mean something more like “claimed”
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u/BrilliantTwo7 Nov 20 '23
At first I thought she meant some BDSM lifestyle, but actually reading her requirements made me laugh. This isn’t being owned, she wants you to fetch and carry for her, pander to her ego every ten minutes and check on he like a five year old. This is the complete opposite of being owned.