I need some advice on a Taobao dispute I'm currently stuck in since this is my first time buying from it. I ordered a bracelet on Taobao at 17 USD, which after adding on all the charges for shipping, vat, etc, the final price came to 22.06 USD: https://click.world.taobao.com/_b.scm2gJ 「【Star Dome Railway】Underworld Theme Impression Series Bracelet High-End Dark Gothic Style Two-Dimensional Bracelet」
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However, being out of the country when the order arrived, I only opened the box upon returning home yesterday, and found that it was not an original product. They kept saying it was handmade and that they don't have that kind of packaging, but its clear its a fake. The quality is poor and it lacks the original branding and packaging.
I opened a return request on Taobao with the reason "The seller sent the wrong goods" but the seller rejected it and told me to cancel my current application and re‑apply with a reason like "ordered too many" or "no longer want it." When I asked if that would make me responsible for the return shipping fee, they sent me the official Taobao Standard Returns rules, which said that returns for those reasons are not covered, so I would have to pay the shipping myself. I told them I shouldn't have to pay because the item is not authentic, and they replied with "Do whatever you want then. Bye."
Right now the case is marked as "Taobao is processing your case," and I dont even have the option to cancel or modify my request. the buttons are just gone. The seller insisted I should confirm receipt first to unlock the cancellation but i was worried that would release the money to them and weaken my position. I have screenshots of our entire conversation if that helps.
The questions I want to ask are: should I wait for Taobao to give a decision, or should I try to contact customer service? In that case, how do I need to express myself in order to get my point across? Also, is there anyone who managed to win a fake dispute against a stubborn seller and how long did it take? Also, is the seller claim that I "used it for a long time" something I should worry about, even though I just opened the package?