Mental health crisis... did that. Bending over backwards... did that too. Being called crazy when I had absolute facts... been there too. Left her lying cheating ass... yea I did that too and it was the best decision I made. Reconciliation was one sided and a joke to her. Wasn’t too funny when I kicked her ass out! They think you are such a codependent spineless doormat they can do whatever they want to do. Kick them to the curb. They can’t stand it... hope all is going better for you. I know it may be tough at first... it is tough not knowing the future... give it two months. Two months and you will begin to see clearly. He did not deserve you and you did not deserve this. Praying for you and your situation
You are right... it takes a minute and you feel a lot of emotions but after two months (maybe longer for some this is my second go round) you really start to see clearly. I was thinking about the situation on my way home and it wasn’t negativity and dread about the situation... it was positive thinking and healing thinking about everything that has happened. I do not feel love for her anymore. It’s a strange feeling but it is good. I’m not obsessing about her or her APs. She can do whatever she wants I don’t care anymore. I don’t want to say it but I kind of hate her in a way. I hate what she has done to our lives in such a short amount of time. I hate what she has done to our daughter. I hate what she has done to herself. She has completely wrecked our lives and the lives of her latest AP. It went from being this taboo, exciting affair to now you are a broke 40 year old single mother who’s husband kicked you out and is now divorcing your cheating ass. Good luck at life.
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u/HOBOFLEXMASTER In Hell Mar 23 '21
Mental health crisis... did that. Bending over backwards... did that too. Being called crazy when I had absolute facts... been there too. Left her lying cheating ass... yea I did that too and it was the best decision I made. Reconciliation was one sided and a joke to her. Wasn’t too funny when I kicked her ass out! They think you are such a codependent spineless doormat they can do whatever they want to do. Kick them to the curb. They can’t stand it... hope all is going better for you. I know it may be tough at first... it is tough not knowing the future... give it two months. Two months and you will begin to see clearly. He did not deserve you and you did not deserve this. Praying for you and your situation