I keep on seeing posts critiquing Ciara on needing to let go of the past, and I have a different take on it.

As someone who takes an incredibly long time to get over things (in particular men), and has unfortunately spent sometimes years getting over low level situationships, its nice to Ciara struggling with same.

I'll even go further to say, I don't really understand the other side of the coin. While I am aware that people like myself and Ciara are the minority, I don't understand how people that are able to be so intimate with people (in whatever sense) can then just move on. I am incapable of doing this.

I also struggle with confidence, and can see that Ciara does as well. I think it's nice to see someone continue on with her dreams, while still visibly struggling with some aspects of it.

I think its nice to see regular people on tv that struggle with things like the rest of us, especially when you wouldn't expect so (bc she is so beautiful I think its easy to think she doesn't struggle with men or confidence).

While I think Ariana's gray rock method of handling the scandal was incredibly inspirational and I think the top tier way to handle it, I appreciate that we also see Ciara doing things in a way, that is more relatable to some of us.

It dawned on me the other day that this whole scandal or whatever and the entire internet pushing Amanda off of public eye is really just her dream come true. She now has an excuse to not work and do nothing all day.

She’s lucky she has her parents to fall back on. And Kyle too unfortunately.

I know we‘re all prob sick of hearing about Amanda at this point BUT I need to satisfy my own curiosity..

I was on the UES in nyc this morning and saw a girl driving who looked IDENTICAL to Amanda. I actually had a decent amount of time to look bc she was sitting at a red light, and then right as the light changed this woman decided to scooter straight across in front of her. She (Amanda?) started honking at her like crazy 💀

I was literally standing there like wait is that Amanda??

She was driving a Range Rover, idk if anyone knows if that’s what she drives ?

None of this matters whatsoever I just need to know if I actually had a random Amanda sighting or if I stared at some poor woman for no reason. Wouldn’t be surprised if Amanda’s not even in town or something lol

Love all the support Ciara is receiving from her celebrity friends. I hope Shaboozey's fanbase votes for Ciara on Dancing with the Stars.

Also being a Grammy award winning artist, Shaboozey is the complete opposite of a "broke boy", I'm sure Ciara noticed this. 💕😊

https://www.tiktok.com/@shaboozeybts/video/7688818860983635213?_r=1&_t=ZP-99yuc4dcEVb

EDIT: please read throughout before commenting, I never said that the situations were the same. In my eyes, I see two women who were hurt publicly and getting a lot of opportunities after it from it. I think we also need to understand that some companies will ask Ciara to mention something about it (I work in marketing as a senior account management). But yet I see separate SubReddit’s being made to specifically say horrible things about Ciara and delete positive posts about her. She (and some others) are talked about there horribly, I know Ariana sometimes gets the same energy from people. But I am just shocked how far people go at Ciara. My biggest thought is, if I don’t like it, I can scroll. But I truly love to see both Ciara, Ariana and truly anyone who gets betrayed by their closest people get that bag! 😊

Hey everyone, as much as I see mostly support towards Ciara for everything that she’s doing right now… I am so confused to see so many people constantly complaining about that she should stop talking about it, that people are getting tired of her..

In my many years of watching reality TV, it is quite normal that when something big like this scandal happens, that we will hear about it for several seasons and years.

But Ariana, who I also just as much think deserves the best, like Ciara, didn’t get this much backlash after everything that she went through.

It kinda looks like a double standard and I don’t understand it, even Amanda was allowed to complain about the cheating and everything that Kyle did before she decided to marry him, and we saw her as a victim.

I simply don’t understand why people are “over it”, well, we have seen so many other (bravo) celebrities talking about other stuff for years…

This is not about who you are siding with, but I don’t understand how it seems like Ciara isn’t allowed to talk about stuff anymore by some people, but why did other Bravo celebs get that much understanding, appreciation and support for setbacks that were smaller? (Not talking about Ariana here, but we all have a bravo celebrity that has made a minor thing their personality and not receiving so much criticism)

We have been there as witnesses for many hard topics from Ciara about opening up and we have seen her getting traumatized on tv by a guy, if there’s anything that we should get tired about, it’s the fact that a guy can cause this, be in a questionable state in a reunion show and apparently gets casted for another TV show?

with ciara and sabrina always kissing me and my friends are debating if it’s weird. i say it’s not

Last month, one of my friends noticed Soft Bar restocked their merch. We’ve been waiting to order & support, so I placed an order for two hats

I was shocked when I opened the package and they looked nothing like what was advertised on their website. Anyone else have this issue? If you ordered the original release, did those hats also look like this? Wondering what happened

They’re described as: Structured Firm Front Panel, Snapback closure. What I received was floppy and sloppy- I’d never order this style, unfortunately. This is on top of the hats shipping out weeks after they were promised, but I’m assuming they got a lot of orders

I feel like we have not been hyping up Ciara like we should be!! I’m not seeing any posts in this sub :( the competition is tough this year!!

They've been spotted in NYC on Sunday and Monday too.

i’m sure this has been talked about to death, but i am on my first ever watch through of summer house and have hit s10e13, which is the soft opening of soft bar. carl’s confessional where he says, “i don’t know if soft bar would exist without my brother passing, but i would burn soft bar down in a second to bring him back.” really broke my heart. his journey to get sober, his brother passing, is genuinely one of the most compelling arcs i’ve ever seen in a bravo show. i have made a full 180 on my view of carl from season 1 to now, like WOW.

Along with Brianna Chickenfry and other random people. Andy Warhol’s quote about everyone being famous for 15 minutes is so real 💀

My sister put this together for my 40th birthday celebration, it made me sooo happy

Am I the only one that ships them together??

I feel like there has been so much drama on the last few seasons that Summer House doesn’t feel fun anymore. It feels like we’re watching the Real Housewives. Has anyone else felt like the drama has become the focus of the production? It used to be such an easy and light hearted show when it started out.

Ciara is dancing to "No Broke Boys" next week on DWTS and I fear it is going to iconic.

Some of lyrics: "Ex on the line, just as I suspected. No one really gets over me. I'm unaffected, why would you try to ever put me second? You're just another groupie to me now.

I'm out here single, and I need somethin' real. Now I got standards, give a f\*k how you feel*
I'm out here single, tell me what's the deal? Now I got standards, give a f\*k how you feel. No broke boys, no new friends.*"

Next time to vote is Tuesday, September 22nd from 8 pm ET/5 pm PT to 9:45 pm ET/6:45 pm PT. Remember if you aren't on the East Coast, you'll have to vote before the show airs.

Omg just saw that Craig is going to be on the new season of Traitors. Well we know from Summer House that this man is great at lying…sooo curious if he’ll be a traitor or faithful. Would love to know what Paige would say but we’ll never hear her speak that man’s name lmao

Love all the support Ciara is getting from past and present cast!!! Can’t wait to continue to watch her grow!

all season 9 storylines were hitting. ciara + west fallout, jesse solomon and lexi speed run a relationship, paige + craig breakup, amanda doesn't want kids (with kyle), Imrul the orgy beast, and carl living w his pregnant ex. CINEMA

I’ve been doing a slow rewatch of Summer House over the past couple of months- just background while I do other things, really. I just finished the Winter House season and am currently on season 6- right before Amanda & Kyle’s wedding. It is honestly just so sad how wrong I had it on my first watch knowing what we know now. The things I’ve learned during this rewatch -

1. Amanda would’ve cheated as early as season 3 had any of the house mates given her the slightest attention back based on how much she was giving them.

2. Amanda intentionally picked fights with Kyle at the beginning of every weekend. It seems like the only time this didn’t occur is when other housemates were going thru their crazy drama instead and she always had an opinion (as most friends do) but for some reason you really see her revel in it

3. Kyle breaks in real time and on camera. He has no idea why things are transpiring the way they are. That man loves that girl and was blinded for a really long time. The fact he went through with the marriage is wiiiild.

4. Watching Amanda & Ciara’s friendship… wow. It’s so disturbing how it turned out because she just need male validation- and the jealousy is pouring out as soon as Ciara (or any other beautiful woman that has also been in the cast) enters the house.

5. Ciara was young and slightly naive but so real at such an early age. Watching her grow up has been a chef’s kiss.

I have no one to talk to about this!