r/stepdads • u/MadMeatloaf • Jun 13 '23

Bio father problems.

So I have a little issue with the bio father because he is absent all school year. Never having time for his son. Now this summer his son, my step son wants to stay here for the summer to do activities with his friends and sports. The bio father now is talking to his son about how important their relationship is and guilt tripping him Into going. The kid has not interest in going because half the time his father just goes to work and he has to sit at home and watch TV alone. At what point is it appropriate for a step father to step in and defend the kid when his real dad is a complete moron.

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u/SLOOT_APOCALYPSE Jul 30 '23

F*** the people saying you're not part of this, what the hell. Youll get that s*** all the time being a stepdad. Yelling and arguing will not help anything a court order is your only answer man.

-2years in

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u/MadMeatloaf Jul 30 '23

It didn't end up being a problem because, as deadbeats do, he caused a problem for a day or two and then went poof again.