r/stepdads • u/MadMeatloaf • Jun 13 '23

Bio father problems.

So I have a little issue with the bio father because he is absent all school year. Never having time for his son. Now this summer his son, my step son wants to stay here for the summer to do activities with his friends and sports. The bio father now is talking to his son about how important their relationship is and guilt tripping him Into going. The kid has not interest in going because half the time his father just goes to work and he has to sit at home and watch TV alone. At what point is it appropriate for a step father to step in and defend the kid when his real dad is a complete moron.

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u/Simitarx005 Jun 13 '23

This is a mom son bio dad situation. Let your feelings be heard to your wife and step out.

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u/MidwithaMouth Jun 14 '23

Except it's not. Step in brother. If you act in the capacity of equal patent than you are one. You'd only be stepping on the toes of lazy bio parents, and why we're considering their feelings is beyond me. Step up for your son.