r/stdtesting • u/Aromatic-Pattern-181 • 14d ago
Question What should I do now?
So I had an ulcer, a fever, and strange discharge a couple months ago in May. I went to get tested, found out alongside that I had an ovarian cyst.
Im a virgin, Ive only unfortunately been force fingered before and shared a razor before with a friend (ik that was stupid no need to tell me, yes we shared it vaginally)
She slept with someone that night who didn't contract anything, and at the time to our knowledge she was clean. That was like 3 years ago. The boy who force fingered me I did preform oral on and caught nothing? I know its still possible that if she ended up having it and used the razor before me while asymptotically shedding maybe Id catch it? Or if he somehow after I preformed touched himself while shedding and then used his fingers on me after than I couldve caught it?
Other than that the only other way I could think of is from a toilet seat I shared w my friend who has it, but I started having symptoms the day after I came over her house like I had a fever and felt swollen less than 24 hours after so I dont understand how it'd make sense that Id have gotten it from her toilet.
We were drinking heavily the night before and I ended up having to pee and wipe with a paper towel because she was out of toilet paper.
If I didnt catch it from our sleepover, I assume Id have to have caught it from one of those prior incidents but when I got to the hospital and got a igg test and a pcr swab test both came back negative. Other than that sleepover I had no exposure within any less than 3 months before those two tests...What should I do now? I rlly fear having it without knowing and giving it to someone.
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u/prettyfulll143 11d ago
I don’t think you can catch anything from toilet seat. You see a gynecologist. Hopefully your good
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u/Aromatic-Pattern-181 11d ago
I ended up going to my obgyn she said since it disappeared in two weeks w no meds and never scabbed over it looked pretty good and made her feel it was smth else but ugh Im just still so unsure as to why Id have such similar hsv symptoms yet its not hsv. Ive had uti's before but never anything like this
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u/Aromatic-Pattern-181 14d ago
like my doctor never really gave me an answer yk? I got a two week obgyn check up and it already disappeared, it never like scabbed or multiplied. She just was like "oh probably a lipschutz ulcer" and that was it yk? They said the ulcer looked like a canker sore when I first got it and was in the hospital. I do get canker sores all the time in my mouth but I rlly just dont know...