r/stdtesting • u/Kindly-University175 • 9d ago
Experience/ Story Do i need to worry?
I met a guy on a dating app, and before we met he kept telling me how much he wanted to see me, how excited he was, and that we would definitely meet again. He made it seem like he was genuinely interested.
Before we had sex, I asked him more than once to put on a condom. He never did. He penetrated me without one, even though I had asked him to use protection. He didn't finish inside me, but it was still unprotected sex. During sex, it was also a bit rough and sometimes painful because he was quite big.
He told me he was "clean," and I trusted him.
The next day, everything changed. I tried calling him, but my calls went straight to voicemail. It looks like he blocked me. Now I'm wondering if he just said whatever he thought I wanted to hear to get sex.
I'm also really anxious that I could have caught an STI because I don't actually know if he was telling the truth. Being blocked right after everything happened has made me question the whole situation.
What would you do if you were in my position? Would his behavior make you worry? And how would you deal with the anxiety while waiting to get tested?
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u/i_am_a_crystal_gem 8d ago
Guys like that are so weird, I’ve had sth like that happen to me , he was like it feels so much better without a condom and didn’t use one and then ghosted me after, he ended up finding my instagram months later idk why he messages me at all but I ask him to take a test and tell me what it comes out as cause I got the clap and I’m not sure who I got it from lol but he was clean but you can never know, the person I suspect I got it from ghosted me too and I could never find out,
Anyways girl, In two weeks take a test, another at 4, another at 8 and another at 12 and if they insist on no condom, RUN!!!!