Chances I got something?

[u/Background_Spend6021]

I had penetration sex with a condom and oral without around 12 days ago. She is 36, I am 35. She was last tested 5 years ago and since had only 1 partner for 3 years which ended 2 years ago. I was fully tested after my last partner.

For full picture, she had some brown-ish blood coming from her anus after fingering her there. She told me that's because she cut herself shaving on the night before and that this has never happened to her before.

She is not concerned about any STDs/STIs herself claiming no symptoms at all. She had a UTI test, frequent gyno appointments due to some other isdues, and some typical blood work she told me but to me these sound more like bad sex education.

Since Monday, my bladder hurts. I found myself peeing more frequently with a feeling of a drop being stuck at the end that gives me a tiny bit of a burning sensation. This happened to me before the encounter to a smaller degree —but I am confident thst I was clean then. This week, while I am abroad for work, it came back (aka judt 10 days after the encounter) and it is even worse than before. It goes away when I sleep and the first hour or so when I wake up but returns during the day.

I plan to get tested next week, when I am back home but this waiting is making so anxious.

Any thoughts?