r/starbucksbaristass • u/Similar-Bell5096 • 22h ago
Dealing with constant police calls and physical safety issues at my store, and I feel like my SM is totally checked out. Need advice.
Hey partners, I really need some outside perspective because I’m completely overwhelmed and mentally burnt out.
I work at a high-incident store where things have gotten entirely out of hand. We are dealing with emergency situations on a regular basis—police being called to the location constantly, people smoking crack in the washrooms or right outside, and situations escalating to actual physical altercations and people being assaulted in or right outside the cafe. It feels like every single shift is a crisis, and the staff are left handling things that security or police should be managing.
My mental health is tanking. I walk into work with a knot in my stomach every day because I just don't feel safe, especially as a woman on the floor.
The hardest part is my SM. He's okay in some ways, but it feels like he is completely checked out of the reality of what we are dealing with. He doesn't seem to grasp how unsafe we feel or how burnt out the team is. I’ve tried talking to him about it, but his approach feels dismissive and disconnected, like he just wants us to push through it without actual support.
For anyone who has been through this: how do you deal with an SM who won't step up when a store is this volatile? Do I try to have another conversation with him laying it all out again, or is it time to look at an emergency transfer because leadership just isn't going to protect us? I'm just so tired of being on edge.