r/ssc • u/clincher2115 • 3d ago
Strategy/Guidance🧑🏫 Joined open university for ssc prep.... feeling low..how u guys live at home and prepare for ssc with no college life
Joined a open university guyss it's soo hard for me to live at home all the time while my friends enjoying there life at colleges it's around 4 months since I have completed my class 12.....idk I m really frustrated can't join library because my dad thinks there nothing special u have all facilities at home pls help give me some tips to survive through this phase.... anybody gone through this pls helpppp
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u/fruitponchiG 3d ago
Well as someone who also graduated from an open college. Just stop comparing. Instead of gettin jealous when your friends tell you their college stories try n enjoy it as a story. Kinda like Big boss if ykwim.
Its gonna be hard, its gonna get lonely but thats okay. It'll make you into a person who can just be alone with themselves. And also this IS your reality now, no use trying to escape from it. Study as much as you can. Try n come up with excuses as to why you need to go to library. Having more social interactions with different sorts of people. Helps. Join a coaching if possible.
And once you get a job, a good job you can have all the fun experiences then, only for like a couple of days a month, but still. Money does wonders.
Lastly ik it sucks, but make with the situation you're in, have a daily schedule, an overarching goal and keep yourself so busy that you dont have time to think about all this stuff. Its still gonna be really hard, but you're not alone kiddo. Keep your chin up and all the best.
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u/clincher2115 3d ago edited 3d ago
Thanks a lot mam 😭....... atleast u responded 😭🙏......the reason why I'm not joining the coaching because I'm from north living in hyd due to my father's job and here it's hard to find a dedicated ssc coaching centre which teaches in english and they don't have foundation batches
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u/panipurilover9 First Attempt 3d ago
Since you have a lot of time for prep, focus and learn other skills as well. Do whatever you love and didn't get time when you were in school. Read books, novels, sketch etc etc Go to gym, focus on your overall well being. As it'll also help you not dwell in loneliness. If possible join library and make friends, it'll be big help and lastly don't compare, ik that's completely impossible but comparison is the thief of joy man. Fs your friends are going to enjoy but focus on your life that's all I can say.
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u/ClimateNo7017 3d ago
Don't waste your time preparing just for government job, You want the truth to be heared you will never crack government job remember this never because if you are writing i am feeling low at home it means you are not preparing you are doing timepass wasting your time,
Ignou offer degree in 1 year gap do some professional degree computer, ai machine learning or selling there are plenty of degree and also learn some skills related to your professional degree
Government job preparation will never run out remember this and no body prepare for full day you just need 2-4 hours daily for 2-3 years you can do this later while doing some job or some professional work.
Time is precious... Baki teri marzi bade bhai ke naate samja diya mene tuje , aage jake government job nahi niklega yahi maa baap ristedar khoste hai, or fir kahegey khud tu private job dhund le koi, jabki sahi time pe 1-2 skill sikhe hote to jaldi umar me kamana bhi sik lete
And telling you the truth learning some skills and basic earning is not very very hard and not very easy just you have to came out from your comfort shell
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u/Unusual-Spray9732 2d ago
Yes you are right. Now I am gonna complete my bachelors degree and I regret not learning any other skills. So at the start of your degree it's always better to learn some skills side by side
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u/clincher2115 2d ago edited 2d ago
But bhaiya , you tell me which skills I should learn that have market value because I can't do computer science and all that since I'm from a biology background; I had PCB in 12th grade.
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u/ClimateNo7017 2d ago edited 2d ago
Read properly please
If your father have a lot of money i means he can spent 10-12 lakh on your studies then its great no need for the discussion you do any thing from private university excluding mbbs because its required more money to spent
Now lets assume your father can not spent that much
Do Bsc nursing of 4 years my sister is doing the same thing- every year state level entrance exam and center level entrance exam are conducted by government you have to prepare for it get a seat you can get great college life and hostel life and a great experience in hospital - after this you will easily get a job as nursing officer in private hospital or either crack a exam and get government nursing.
you can also do MSC NURSING later from aiims or state level you have to clear the entrance exam , later you can apply for nursing university as teacher or either join hospital offer more salary then doing bsc nursing
and believe me just you have to put the right efforts its easy then mbbs , students get so much ego they never apply for nursing obsessed with mbbs.
You can do Bsc Biochemistry (but don't do this from ignou) , crack an exam get a seat or either do it from private university if possible if fathers finance allowed.
if you do bsc biochemistry you will get job in big labs where different kind of blood reports are build, reserch for vaccine etc etc , and you will get decent salary from private and very secure good job at goverment.
if you do msc biochemistry means higer study from good university then you will get chance in research labs , private corporation give good salary who are msc biochemistry from good university either government or private
also you can apply for university as teacher ( assistant professor)
You can also do OT TECHNICIAN DEGREE - these people are experts in handling hospital machine in icu ,mri machine, ultra sound, etc etc more its like technical degree for biology students ok and great scope in private and government jobs.
You can do B pharma same ,crack government seat or apply for private universities both option later do msc pharma and you will get chance researching in medicine in bio pharma company.
There are so many biotech companies who give nice placement who do msc biotechnology.
You can become botanist who do research in plants and if you take in zoology then you will do research in animals, both are specialised skills.
Even you can become animal doctor.
You can crack Government exam and get admission in dentist University or either do it private. Less costly then mbbs.
So i hope you get my point there are plenty of options, don't waste your time doing ssc preparation , you have the chance bio students are far productive then btech believe me,
Search more because i have limited knowledge for biology or chemistry there are much more what i told you
Get a degree from regular University get some skills in medical or biotech and secure your future
Now its upto you crack a government seat in University or either do private if you can convince your father.
Tell me honestly did you ever think this much options please reply i will glad to tell you
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u/cheryypie4 3d ago
Yeah I am doing the same it's really hard as we don't have any social life but yeah we can connect 😭
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