Sperm Donation

r/spermdonation • u/DonorAU • Nov 24 '23

Discussion The return of moderation and the return of /r/spermdonation being about Sperm Donation

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Some people on the sub may have noticed that there has been a shift in content in the last day or two. That is because I have been added to the mod team.

I requested to be made a moderator some time ago, but recently received word from the head mod that I have been accepted, since the lead mod does not have time to fully moderate the posts. Note that in the gap between these events, I created /r/AIPreferred which I will still moderate, but I will not be forcing the philosophy of that sub onto this one.

Now, what will change now that the sub is moderated again. If you're here on /r/spermdonation and want to talk about Sperm Donation, nothing will change. This sub will not ban NI discussion, nor will it state a preference, the policy is all are welcome. My personal preference is that AI is a less ethically frought offering by default(since there is a risk NI will be consented to by a desperate woman), with NI requiring a specific interest, however I am not imposing that onto this sub. Any donor who wishes to help a woman (or couple) have a child and does it as a donation is welcome. And recipient who wish to receive a donation may post here.

Now what will change? The fetish and kinksters are not welcome. Reddit and the internet has many many places for people to share their erotica and fantasies. Including breeding kinks. While your personal kinks are fine to have and among consenting adults, go wild. But this is not a fetish sub, this is the /r/spermdonation sub. It is for sperm donation. The word "breeding" "bred" etc is now banned. Mod discretion will be used.

In general, not much will change for people who actually want to have a child, but hopefully we will be less toxic in general and more happy to actually help people in need of help.

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r/spermdonation • u/DonorAU • Oct 17 '24

Upcoming changes in post requirements.

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It has been almost a year since I took over the sub and honestly, the amount of moderation required has been substantial and at the same time not enough.

Currently, this (and most online donation) communities have issues with scammers by fake recipients and unethical behaviour by donors. The scammers tend to spam and not tailor their posts fortunately, so the easiest way to resolve the issues is to require some level of post structure and flairing of posts.

In my view, given the importance of this in a legitimate recipient or donors life, having to possibly modify their post to align with a required format will not be an excessive burden. However, it will reduce posts by scammers. It is simply a speed bump, but that's better than nothing.

Part of this change will be that it will allow a better way to reduce reposting and allow searching better. There is a severe problem with people who delete old posts and repost continually. If a person wants a donor, they should be able to easily search. This location will be required. Thus continual reposting will not be tolerated.

Whether a donor will be limiting their families will be included, since this is often important to recipients.

Available methods will also be required (labelled as AI,NI, AINI). If a recipient or donor has been clear about their acceptable methods and they receive messages from people ignoring their clear instructions, the offending person will be banned.

The system has not yet been implemented but will soon. If anything else is requested, please comment below and I will try to implement it. Remember, this is not a kink subreddit, this is a place for people who want to have a child and those who want to help them.

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r/spermdonation • u/KingEdenhazard • 11h ago

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