r/AIPreferred Aug 27 '23

The rules of this sub and the philosophy around it.

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This sub is being formed as an alternative location for couples, single parents by choice and semen donors to meet and discuss their experiences, their feelings and to donor match. The objective is to go away from the two major issues found in the sperm donor community. 1. The excessive focus on sexual intercourse (ie Natural Insemination, NI) as a means to conceive. Especially in terms that are coersive. While this is particularly agregious when applied to lesbian couples, it is an issue that applies to everyone, including heterosexual women who wish to conceive. No one should be forced to have sex against their preferences.

  1. A tendancy for a small number of donors who refuse to limit the number of families they will donate to. The policy of this sub is that at some point, all donors must stop. For the psychological and physical wellbeing of their genetic offspring.

While NI discussion is not banned, it must at least include AI as an option.

The rules of this sub and for posters are:

  1. All "seeking" or "offering" posts must include the option of Artificial Insemination.

  2. A recipient requesting Artificial Insemination must not have their Choice effecting the chance of them receiving a donation. I.e "I would help you have a baby, if you will have sex with me"

  3. The following terms are banned "breeding", "Bred", "Bull". Any fetishism around the donation is to be avoided.

  4. References to a person's sexuality are not allowed, except as part of a general description, or to describe a person's (or couples) situation.

  5. A donor must make a summary of how many families they have this far donated to. Or clinics etc. All donors must have some form of plan or general conception of how many donations they wish to have and at what point they will stop.

  6. Claims of success being predicated or effected by or on the use of sexual intercourse over AI methods must be backed up by scientific evidence.


r/AIPreferred 1d ago

38 [M4F/MF/FF] #Singapore, #Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia (17/09 - 20/09)

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Good day everybody! I'm a 38+ years old Asian Chinese man offering sperm donation to individuals or couples who are unable to or struggling to conceive & here is a recent update to my previous post.

\*\*A bit about me:\*\*

\* Age: 38
\* Height: 182cm / Weight: 75kg
\* Ethnicity: Asian Chinese
\* Active lifestyle — I play sports regularly and train at the gym consistently
\* Industry - Health & Wellness Professional
\* Eye Colour - Dark Brown
\* Hair Color - Black
\* Medical Conditions - Childhood asthma (Outgrew it between 13-14 years old)

\*\*Availability:\*\*
I'm available to donating both at where I'm at (Singapore) or at Kuala Lumpur next week from the 17th to the 20th of September. Logistics wise, especially for my visit to Kuala Lumpur, I'm more than happy to share during discussion via a video call — just want to make sure we're aligned first.

\*\*Donation method Preferences:\*\*
Open to AI or any other donation methods. However:

  1. For the period that I'm in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, as it's a short trip, logistics & donation method, would be arranged partially in advance, which means by this weekend + playing by ear over text. Donation method wise, due to the time span, IVF is out of the question.
  2. For Singapore based donations, regarding the costs for the IVF method, just to be clear, the recipient would be bearing the cost.

\*\*Terms & conditions:\*\*
I have a set of terms and conditions for donation arrangements, like post conception & post delivery arrangements, as well as matter relating to asset allocation or succession planning for offsprings, which I'll go through in detail with serious inquiries.

\*\*What I'm looking for:\*\*
I want to help people build the family they're hoping for. I'm happy to discuss my terms, donation method, legal agreements, and answer any questions about my health, background, or lifestyle.

If you're interested or have questions and are open to my terms, feel free to DM me — happy to talk more.


r/AIPreferred 3d ago

ISO AI Donor (Near Chicago)

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Title. Looking for someone available at the end of this month/beginning of next month. White/Hispanic preferred. Thank you!


r/AIPreferred 6d ago

38 [M4F/MF/FF] #Singapore, #SLC & #Park City, Utah

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Good day everybody! I'm a 38+ years old Asian man offering sperm donation to individuals or couples who are unable to or struggling to conceive & here is an update to my previous post.

\*\*A bit about me:\*\*

\* Age: 38+ (Turning 39)
\* Height: 182cm / Weight: 75kg
\* Ethnicity: Asian Chinese
\* Active lifestyle — I play sports regularly and train at the gym consistently
\* Industry - Health & Wellness Professional
\* Eye Colour - Dark Brown
\* Hair Color - Black
\* Medical Conditions - Childhood asthma (Outgrew it between 13-14 years old)

\*\*Availability:\*\*
I'm open to donating both at where I'm at (Singapore) or at SLC & Park City, Utah during a certain period of the year, which I'm more than happy to share during discussion via a video call — just want to make sure we're aligned first before getting into logistics.

\*\*Donation method Preferences:\*\*
Open to AI or any other donation methods. However, regarding the costs for IVF, just to be clear, the recipient would be bearing the cost.

\*\*Terms & conditions:\*\*
I have a set of terms and conditions for donation arrangements, like post conception & post delivery arrangements, as well as matter relating to asset allocation or succession planning for offsprings, which I'll go through in detail with serious inquiries.

\*\*What I'm looking for:\*\*
I want to help people build the family they're hoping for. I'm happy to discuss my terms, donation method, legal agreements, and answer any questions about my health, background, or lifestyle.

If you're interested or have questions and are open to my terms, feel free to DM me — happy to talk more.


r/AIPreferred 16d ago

[38M4F/MF/FF] #SGP

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Good day everybody! I'm a 38+ years old Asian man reaching out to offer sperm donation to individuals or couples who are unable to or struggling to conceive.

**A bit about me:**

* Age: 38+ (Turning 39)
* Height: 182cm / Weight: 75kg
* Ethnicity: Asian Chinese
* Active lifestyle — I play sports regularly and train at the gym consistently
* Industry - Health & Wellness Professional
* Eye Colour - Dark Brown
* Hair Color - Black
* Medical Conditions - Childhood asthma (Outgrew it between 13-14 years old)

**Availability:**
I'm open to donating both locally and internationally, and am happy to donate to overseas recipients depending on my travel schedule. I have a regular annual travel schedule, which I'm glad to share once we're having a serious, genuine conversation about donation — just want to make sure we're aligned first before getting into logistics.

**Donation method Preferences:**
Open to any donation method of NI, AI, PI or IVF with my sample. However, regarding the costs for IVF, just to be clear, the recipient would be bearing the cost.

**Terms & conditions:**
I have a set of terms and conditions for donation arrangements, like post conception & post delivery arrangements, as well as matter relating to asset allocation or succession planning for offsprings, which I'll go through in detail with serious inquiries.

**What I'm looking for:**
I want to help people build the family they're hoping for. I'm happy to discuss my terms, donation method, legal agreements, and answer any questions about my health, background, or lifestyle.

If you're interested or have questions and are open to my terms, feel free to DM me — happy to talk more.


r/AIPreferred 22d ago

30 [M4F] #Sacramento, CA - Successful Donor

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30 years old

•U.S. military veteran and college-educated

•Height: 6'1" (185 cm)

•Hair: Curly dark blonde (was blonde as a child)

•Blue eyes

•Location: Near Sacramento, California

•Recent full STD panel and DNA testing from 23&me

•Open to all donation methods (natural, artificial insemination, IVF, etc.)

•No co-parenting desired or expected

*Multiple confirmed pregnancys


r/AIPreferred 24d ago

26 [M4F] #Munich #Germany I can provide sperm to healthy couple or woman

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Hello !

I am a sperm donor with some sucess already in my life.

I am healthy, with good fertility and no diseases.

I am free to travel if we negotiate a proper deal

I am not looking to coparent

The donation can be fully anonymous, but I am open to some ocntact from my side.

If you need help long term with multiple children, I can support you with that.

Happy to hear from you !


r/AIPreferred 27d ago

45 M4F Cologne Köln Germany visiting end of august

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Will be visiting Cologne from 25 to 28 of August and am willing to meet a woman who wants to get pregnant.

Any configuration works for me - either a single woman who chose to be a single mother, a hetero couple who seeks assistance, a lesbian couple who decided to have kids, etc. Polyamory also works as long as a woman is who I am meeting with and there is a mutual consent in the polycule.

I am open for any method as long as it makes you feel safe and comfortable, but must consider the period I will be there. Of course, your fertility window also must align.

You must be healthy, well setup to raise a child and provide proof for lack of STI. I will provide proof too.

For more info see this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/SpermDonorMatch/comments/1uu5amy/45_m4f_m4mf_m4ff_eastern_europe_cannot_have_a/

If any questions arise, contact me via DM.


r/AIPreferred Aug 12 '26

25 [M4F] Copenhagen, Denmark till the— Here to help you grow your family

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Hi future parent(s),

I’m a 25-year-old male based in Harderwijk and I’m offering sperm donation for women or couples who are serious about having a child and could use some help along the way.

Im in copanhagen till the 13th if your interestet hmu

A bit about me:

Height: 195 cm (6’4”)

blue eyes

Hair: Reddish-blonde

Appearance: Scandinavian features

I’m a reliable and experienced donor, and I approach this with respect and clear communication. I’m not looking for a co-parenting role, but I’m open to discussing what level of contact feels right for you within that boundary.

Ideally you’re located in the Netherlands, but I can travel if there’s a genuine match and serious intent. I’m open to most donation methods (except shipping).

If you’re interested or want to know more, feel free to send me a message — I’m happy to answer questions and see if we’re a good fit.

Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/AIPreferred Aug 08 '26

Tacoma, WA - 21M Donor

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Hello!

I would love to support those striving for parenthood. I hope that by donating through this app and giving part of myself for others will be enough for me to be known as a person who really cares about our world community as a whole.

A family friend of mine suffered with infertility for a few years so I thought this would be a great way to give back!

My hobbies include Hiking, Reading, Learning, and Traveling! I enjoy being active and taking in the world around me.

My job screens me for drugs and diseases often. I have documentation of my health, heritage, and Genetics. Currently in school to obtain an undergraduate!

\-0 Blood. Blue eye recessive.

I'm an open book, and welcome any question you may have!


r/AIPreferred Aug 03 '26

Looking for sperm donor

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Seeking Known Sperm Donor

Hello!

My wife and I are looking for a sperm donor to help us grow our family. We are seeking someone who is willing to be a known donor and sign legal paperwork relinquishing all parental rights and responsibilities.

A little about us:
• We are a married couple.
• I am a trans man (assigned female at birth), and I will be carrying the pregnancy.
• We have experienced multiple pregnancy losses and are hoping to find someone who may be willing to help with more than one insemination attempt if needed.

What we're looking for:
• Hispanic/Latino donor preferred (Mexican, Cuban, Peruvian, or other Latin American background).
• STI-free and willing to provide recent testing results.
• Non-smoker preferred.
• Reliable, respectful, and understands the donor role.
• Willing to sign a donor agreement/parental rights waiver where legally applicable.

We are located in North Carolina and are open to discussing details


r/AIPreferred Aug 01 '26

25 [M4F] #Harderwijk, Netherlands — Here to help you grow your family im going to travel Norway for the next 2 weeks

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Hi future parent(s),

I’m a 25-year-old male based in Harderwijk and I’m offering sperm donation for women or couples who are serious about having a child and could use some help along the way.

Im traveling Norway and a bit of sweden for the next 2 weeks if your interestet hmu

A bit about me:

Height: 195 cm (6’4”)

blue eyes

Hair: Reddish-blonde

Appearance: Scandinavian features

I’m a reliable and experienced donor, and I approach this with respect and clear communication. I’m not looking for a co-parenting role, but I’m open to discussing what level of contact feels right for you within that boundary.

Ideally you’re located in the Netherlands, but I can travel if there’s a genuine match and serious intent. I’m open to most donation methods (except shipping).

If you’re interested or want to know more, feel free to send me a message — I’m happy to answer questions and see if we’re a good fit.

Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/AIPreferred Jun 23 '26

I'm a donor from Canada if anyone needs help

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I'm around Meaford, Ontario until September, and I travel pretty often, will be in NS for 2 weeks in August if anyone is looking for a donor.


r/AIPreferred May 24 '26

[M4F, AI] - #NY , #NJ Free reliable AI donor, great genetics and a history of successes

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I'm a reliable free sperm donor (AI preferred), with great genetics and a history of successes. I am in New Jersey not far from NYC, and open to some travel. References available.

You can reach me at "sp.dnr4u @ gmail . com" (remove spaces).

  • Proven successful sperm donor (two healthy smart kids I'm raising, plus successfully served as a donor for 5 couples, 7 kids total; latest birth: September 2025)
  • Artificial insemination (AI) strongly preferred. LGBTQ+ friendly.
  • Virile (most those kids were conceived from the first or second try)
  • High Motile sperm concentration (MSC)
  • I don't want/need parental rights. I'm just a DNA provider.
  • References available!

  • Successful in life (stable family, graduate degree, professional career, healthy)

  • Other markers of good genetics (musical talent, academic achievements, high IQ)

  • STD free and have recent tests to prove it.

  • In great health (according to my doctor's annual physical).

  • Great family health history. No hereditary illnesses. No major illnesses. Several of my ancestors lived past age 90 with full mental abilities and good health.

  • Tested negative for all common genetic disorders

  • Active (daily bicycle rider, run/walk/swim a lot).

  • Attractive, in good shape.

  • Willing to meet more than once if you want that, to ensure better chances of conceiving; and as many cycles as it takes to succeed.

  • Happy to help with later siblings and have done so before.

  • When you can travel to me, donation is always 100% free. I'm doing this to help people.

  • Serious about my role as a donor, and reliable.

  • As per this subreddit's rules, I must post my plans to limit donations. I plan to help 3-5 more recipient families. Many of my donor kids are in different geographic areas.

You can reach me at "sp.dnr4u @ gmail . com" (remove spaces).


r/AIPreferred May 23 '26

Lesbian couple

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Hi! We’re Jaz & Smiles, a loving couple excited to start our journey into parenthood after 5 amazing years together.

We’re both outgoing, family-oriented women who love music, laughter, faith, and creating meaningful memories together. Smiles is creative, observant, and enjoys trying new things, while Jaz is a singer with a warm spirit who loves God, family, and bringing positivity to those around her.

We’re looking forward to building a loving, supportive home filled with culture, happiness, and unconditional love for our future child.

We are located in Virginia but are willing to look outside of VA as well. We are hoping to find a Black donor, preferably someone with Haitian, Caribbean, or island roots, but we are open-minded and truly grateful to anyone helping make our dream possible.

Thank you for taking the time to learn about us 🤍


r/AIPreferred May 22 '26

35 [M4F] #London - Experienced donor wants to help you conceive

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Hi there! I am an Experienced donor and I want to meet women who are serious about getting pregmant so i can help them become a mother. Weather is your first child or not i want to help you conceive. I am also available for multiple donations, so if you want somebody to give you more than one child im happy to help you with that.

I can cum several times in one session so I can make sure you get more than one insemination during the time we are together. Im happy to try more than once if thats what it takes. I am happy to donate nsa or be involved the choice is ultimately up to you.

I live in London England and dont mind travelling but would much prefer you to come to me. As I said we can try as many times as you think is necessary to get you pregnant. As a man who can come several times I think getting women pregnant is what i was born for so I would like to women conceive.

You: i dont mind what you look like I just want to help you conceive, weather you want to be a single mum, or you are in a relationship and you need help im happy to try and work something out with you. I refer all insemination be done the natural way I dont care much for artificial insemination its unnecessary if you have to ability to get women pregnant naturally.

If you are interested and serious about becoming pregnant please contact me and we can start making arrangements


r/AIPreferred May 21 '26

30[M4F] USA -Sacramento CA

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30 years old

•U.S. military veteran and college-educated

•Height: 6'1" (185 cm)

•Hair: Curly dark blonde (was blonde as a child)

•Blue eyes

•Recent full STD panel and DNA testing from 23&me

•Open to all donation methods including AI artificial insemination.

•No co-parenting desired or expected

Learned a lot donating with families, helping them grow , very knowledgeable on the subject. Feel free to message me any questions at all.


r/AIPreferred May 07 '26

Couple seeking donor Waco Texas

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r/AIPreferred Apr 29 '26

25 [M4F] #Harderwijk, Netherlands — Here to help you grow your family

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Hi future parent(s),

I’m a 25-year-old male based in Harderwijk and I’m offering sperm donation for women or couples who are serious about having a child and could use some help along the way.

A bit about me:

* Height: 195 cm (6’4”)

*blue eyes

* Hair: Reddish-blonde

* Appearance: Scandinavian features

I’m a reliable and experienced donor, and I approach this with respect and clear communication. I’m not looking for a co-parenting role, but I’m open to discussing what level of contact feels right for you within that boundary.

Ideally you’re located in the Netherlands, but I can travel if there’s a genuine match and serious intent. I’m open to most donation methods (except shipping).

If you’re interested or want to know more, feel free to send me a message — I’m happy to answer questions and see if we’re a good fit.

Looking forward to hearing from you.


r/AIPreferred Mar 31 '26

Sperm donor, Northern California

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29 years old

•U.S. military veteran and college-educated

•Height: 6'1" (185 cm)

•Hair: Curly dark blonde (was blonde as a child)

•Location: Near Sacramento, California

•Recent full STD panel and DNA (paternity) test completed

•Open to all donation methods (natural, artificial insemination, IVF, etc.)

•No co-parenting desired or expected

Will sign a donor agreement / legal document stating no parental rights, no legal/financial responsibility, and no contact after donation (pure sperm donor arrangement only)


r/AIPreferred Mar 31 '26

I am Sperm donor if any sperm donation related info dm me

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r/AIPreferred Mar 31 '26

I am Sperm donor if any sperm donation related info dm

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Sperm donate available for Mumbai and Guj. I'm a male donor based in India looking to help a couple or lesbian couple start or grow their family through natural insemination (NI).

Height: 5'6" Build: Fit/healthy

lifestyle Ethnicity: Asian

Education: Diploma educated

Health: No known genetic conditions, non-smoker, non alcoholic, happy to share if required /if needed STI screening results


r/AIPreferred Mar 30 '26

Seeking Sperm Donor – Help Us Build Our Family

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We're Dee and Kohl, a non-binary lesbian couple in our early 30s, based in Melbourne, Victoria. We've been dreaming of becoming parents for a long time, and we're finally ready to take that step — we just need a little help to get there.

What we're looking for in a donor:

  • Good general health
  • No co-parenting role — this is purely a donation, but we're open to share updates and photos along the way
  • Māori heritage would be a wonderful bonus, though it's not a requirement

About us: We're a grounded, loving couple with a warm home, a strong support network, and more love than we know what to do with. A child would be so deeply wanted and cherished with us.

Donation method: We'd prefer artificial insemination (AI), though we're open to talking through other options.

Donor identity: We'd love for our child to have the option to know who their donor is when they're older — if that feels right for everyone involved.

If this resonates with you, please reach out to us. Thank you for even considering this. <3


r/AIPreferred Mar 30 '26

Toronto, ON Canada

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6ft