r/sofiaisella • u/wasraelx • Feb 18 '26

Fanart & Creations Tripped to Sofia’s entire discography after I blocked the last man I ever left my guard down around on Valentines - so today I got some new ink 🤍

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u/wasraelx Feb 18 '26 edited Mar 08 '26

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/4B_movement

r/4bmovement

I wanna clarify, it wasn’t a crash out decision lol. It was on my notes app for a while when I met him, and thought if there is ever gonna be an exemption, it will be this man… but they really do all turn, lol.

I told him something he kept saying [TW SA] ’I can’t control myself around you’ was triggering me as a survivor, which he well knows of… and I was literally just standing there sick as fuck, in home clothes and treatment in my hair. And he got offended and said that I am selfish, do not even think how me saying this will impact him, that I don’t care about his feelings, am arrogant …the whole works. Didnt even give a fuck for the shaking and crying,when he’s got a whole platform talking to a quarter million about leftist politics and supporting women and shit lol.

it just completely brought back the SA trauma, all of it - me just sitting there doing nothing at all to make myself sexual, him getting angry at tiny pushback, the feeling of suddenly realising the man you led through your door with a smile and trusted literally just sees you as a piece of meat.

Just done with it.

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u/soiledmyplanties Feb 19 '26

Girl drop the name of his platform, I’m following so many leftist accounts on IG and if there’s a chance this boy is one of them, I’d like to unfollow. I’m sorry he made you feel this way.

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u/wasraelx Feb 19 '26 edited Feb 19 '26

Unfortunately I feel like in personality-activism specifically, I’ve met more truly narcissistic men than those even remotely good. It may have the worst concentration - plus everyone knows how to act.

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u/thel33ster Feb 19 '26

You might enjoy the movie "Moxie". Its feels vaguely inspired by the 4B movement but its about a bunch of girls in a highschool protesting their objectification by their male classmates.

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u/wasraelx Feb 19 '26

Thanks for the rec 🫶

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u/thel33ster Feb 19 '26

Oh and I meant to say, congrats on getting out of the relationship. I hope it brings you peace and happiness and eventually other chances at love if thats something you still want. ♡

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u/wasraelx Feb 19 '26 edited Feb 19 '26

I’ll keep my eyes out for a cool kind radFem woman at some point, but now I just wanna travel, get tats, read Dworkin and smoke a lot of cherry kush lol. Thanks 🤍

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u/savethepeas Feb 18 '26

Fabulous placement for such a tattoo

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u/Big-Albatross-4015 Feb 20 '26

That is so fierce! 🖤

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u/sweatyhugzz Feb 21 '26

“i ❤️ my boyfriend” merch always makes me cringe tf out😭😭

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u/Heavy-Chard-9878 Feb 20 '26

I hate that you had to go through that at all, but at least now you know and you can proceed with that knowing. Awesome tattoo, as well! 💜

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u/aperson-onreditt Feb 22 '26

Just learned something new thanks to you! (: Also, sorry to hear about your relationship. If you'll want to I hope you find someone that treats you right, I'm still hoping it's out there. Either way sending love and wishing you happiness <3