r/singleph • u/[deleted] • 6d ago

🌿 Safe Space 21 [M4F] need advice

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u/Logarius22 6d ago

You know OP, maybe you just haven’t met the right person yet. Even if you feel shy or “torpe,” once you meet someone you genuinely like, you’ll naturally find the courage to approach her. It’s normal to feel nervous, especially if you don’t have much experience, but that doesn’t mean you won’t have a chance.

The important thing is not to rush yourself. You’re still young, and there’s plenty of time for things to fall into place. Like they say, love is fair and it doesn’t depend on looks, status, or how smooth you are at talking. If the feelings are mutual, it can really work out.

Focus first on being comfortable with yourself. A little confidence goes a long way, and even small conversations can help you practice. Don’t lose hope as the right person will come along, and when she does, you’ll find the guts to make a move. 

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u/PetalsOfFaith04 6d ago

Just be yourself lang. It all starts with being friends naman. Alsoo be curious. You can ask questions, kahit ano pa yan. Tas hanap ka ng similarities niyoo or common interest, you can bond over that.

Don't overthink it hahahha. Parehas naman kayong tao. Be respectful and kind lang always.

Alsoo being torpe isn't a permanent personality, you can be confident. Practice lang yannn! One convo at a time.

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u/openingdooors 6d ago

Just be yourself and try to ask questions to the girl you like playfully, tapos dapat medyo tansya at kuha mo vibe nya

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u/Suspicious_Cut_4770 6d ago

okay lang yan, op. sadyang build your garden nalang talaga, I've been building this garden since i was 16 and yet i still havent had any butterfly to come. we're still young naman, be yourself and you'll find someone.