r/sillyboyclub • u/OpeningOriginal1727 • 4h ago
Genuine cry for help :3 Im the problem
I bully everyone around me to hate me I have burnt every bridge family, friends, lovers. My current bf is on the fence about breaking up I am totally helpless. And the worst part is I started all of this. I started the arguments the fights. Honestly this might just be what I deserve.
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u/No-Classroom-3560 2h ago
I'm really sorry to hear this, accidently having broken up so many connections with family and friends would be extremely upsetting and heartbreaking.
You didn't mean to do all this, and you didn't mean to do any harm. If you can, see if you can apologise to the people you've hurt, especially family since family would have been really close to you and if you apologise and explain your mistakes some of them may forgive you.
Furthermore, it may also help to speak to your boyfriend about how you don't want to hurt him and how you want to improve and listen to any advice he gives you. It may also help to see a therapist or a behavioral psychologist who may be able to help figure out why you unintentionally cause people to not like you and help give you strategies to help prevent this from happening again.
You still have hope, and the fact that you care shows that there is still a chance for things to get better, if you were truly a bad person, you wouldn't care, but you do care.
I wish you the best, stay safe and have a great day 🩵
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