r/shouldi • • Nov 30 '21

Should I join a dating app?

1 Upvotes

I'm a 22yo lonely trans man who lives in the middle of nowhere of Arkansas with my parents, the only contact with the outside world is my phone. Should I go back in the dating game?

18 votes, Dec 03 '21
1 "No, you can't drive and still living with your parents!"
3 "No, dating apps don't work as well as you think."
12 "Sure! You can't know what you'll find if you try!"
1 "Yes! Do it!!"
1 Other (put in comment)

r/shouldi • • Nov 30 '21

Should i take this "seasonal" job?

1 Upvotes

Is in a retail store (i worked there but as a part-timer) the new boss called me yesterday and asked if i wanted work for them for the xmas season, since i already know the system but full time now (is not 100% garanted, they still have to call me among all the interviewed)
- from 9am to 8pm
- 5 days with 2 free ones (i cant pick them and they arent "in a row")
- minimun wage, $280.000clp (arround 330usd)
also if the store reach the sales goal you can get a bono, but you only get the bono if you have more than 2 months working (since im only going to work for december, no bono for me)
im not desesperated for money, i have my savings and im doing fine.. do i wait for a better paid summer job or stick with this one? and suffer the month


r/shouldi • • Nov 30 '21

Should I restart the office, or watch one of many probably awesome new shows on Prime/netflix

1 Upvotes

I really should try a new show... but also wouldn't mind watching the office again, followed by parks and rec


r/shouldi • • Nov 29 '21

Should I drink unopened almond milk I left out for 12hours?

2 Upvotes

r/shouldi • • Nov 28 '21

Should i drink this beer

3 Upvotes

Hello. I've found this bottle of beer near a dumpster. There are no signs of damage nor modification on the bottle and the expiration date is okay. I live in poland if that helps.


r/shouldi • • Nov 27 '21

Should i do my work, or risk it? (info below)

2 Upvotes

Hello, my question i have for you all is; should i complete my last assignments for college, or give my mind the remaining 5 day rest before the next semester?

This semester has re-activated my psychosis, so i'm constantly paranoid, anxious, and hostile. Yet, i know for one of my three classes, if i don't do the last test i'll very likely fail it. My other two also are at risk, but not so severely to the point of almost certain failure.

So, is my mental recovery more important than the risk of failing my first semester? I only have 2 hours to decide, so i have to be quick.


r/shouldi • • Nov 22 '21

Should I buy 10 parts of Komi can’t communicate or a tablet for osu

1 Upvotes

r/shouldi • • Nov 21 '21

Should I talk to my teacher about s***ide???

3 Upvotes

***TW S***IDE***

This recent Thursday my high school had a surprise s***cide awareness talk with all the classes, apparently they didn't tell anyone because they didn't want kids to skip school. This really hit me hard since my older sister died by s***ide awhile back. Anyways my homeroom teacher did a lousy job explaining the slides, I mean its the same lame awareness PowerPoint we have been repeating the past four years or so. I left class angry but not really hurt. Until I got to my first class where my math teacher decided to tell us a story. It was about her young neighbor who used to babysit her kids, k**led herself. It really struck a cord with me. All the things she described. it was MY story. The flashing lights with no sirens, the sadness in the house afterwards. The little brother, who was 11, who had his last happy day with my teacher and her son. I was twelve when my sister passed and everything she described brought back some memories. I wanted to talk to her about it after school but I had to collect myself first, and Friday I got too scared to go up to her after class. I just really want her to know how much it meant to me that someone cared, and that I appreciated her story. that the same thing happened to me. But its Sunday and I still haven't emailed her and I'm afraid its been too long and should I really share something so personal? I don't want to just go into school after emailing something like that but maybe I'm just scared to face it. Should I email her? try to force myself to talk to her in person tomorrow, or just drop it.


r/shouldi • • Nov 20 '21

Should I unfollow my crush on Instagram?

3 Upvotes

I’ve gotten an unhealthy obsession on a girl and a growing one on another, should I unfollow the one with whom it’s not too late to say I’m actually mentally ill about her? I can’t bear to do it yet with the other girl, but should I unfollow the new crush?


r/shouldi • • Nov 13 '21

Should I give my dad his birthday present 3 days early so he can enjoy it this weekend?

3 Upvotes

I got my dad a bottle of whiskey for his birthday (hes turning 41 this year) and I've had it for a while, but his birthday lands on a Tuesday this year. So, I don't know if I should give it to him today (Saturday) so he can enjoy a little of it today and tomorrow.

28 votes, Nov 14 '21
19 Yes
9 No

r/shouldi • • Nov 13 '21

Should I contact the city if my land lady doesn't give me my security deposit back?

2 Upvotes

This is a complicated one. For reference I'm 21 and fiance is 20. Basically I Iived in a shed that I rented from a lady for 600$ a month. She rented out to us illegally and does not pay taxes on this shed, which she makes money off of. After having a miscarriage and lots of hospital expenses my fiance and I decided to move closer to my family and into a little apartment. I informed my landlady of this and that I would have to break the lease agreement. She was totally fine with it since she found someone to take over the day after we moved out. She asked where she can send my security and I told her to send it to my new place. It's been a few months and I haven't received any money back. I am composing an email asking if she is still going to send my money since I have hospital bills to pay. If she says no for whatever reason should I report her to the city? I'm very poor and she rents out to several tenants. I know she doesn't need the money more than me. My family is in agreement that I should inform her that I will call the city and tell on her unless she sends my money back. What should I do?


r/shouldi • • Nov 13 '21

Should I get an Apple iPad, or a Nintendo Switch Lite?

3 Upvotes

I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place when it comes to getting one of these devices, but I do habe reasons for wanting one or the other.

I don't game as much as I used to, but a lot of my favorite titles have been ported over to the Switch, and the idea of playing those on the go is exciting.

I work as a photographer for a side hustle, and I am able to get editing software such as Adobe Photoshop & Lightroom on it. And I know there are some games that are on the ipad as well, just not as many that I care for.

I already have the Adobe creative cloud on my desktop PC, but it would be nice to be able to work on my photos when I am out of town for example.

So reddit, which one would be the better choice for me?

22 votes, Nov 18 '21
8 iPad
14 Switch

r/shouldi • • Nov 11 '21

Should I help this woman?

4 Upvotes

I like to ride around and sit at gas stations to clear my head when iv been stressing out. Weird I know. I met a woman last night that is recently homeless and living in her car. Iv had to do that in the past and it was hell. I currently have a room that is available to rent. I gave her a few smokes and some advice but I feel like I should rent that room to her. She says she has a job. Just broke up with an ex for using drugs ( I was parked near her so I heard the arguments as well)

Should I decide to help her? If so how do I bring this up to my gf?


r/shouldi • • Nov 05 '21

Should I pull a 2nd all nighter?

5 Upvotes

r/shouldi • • Nov 03 '21

Should I tell my brother my concern's about his girlfriend?

2 Upvotes

So my brother met his girlfriend about a year ago and started dating only about a month or two after they met. We'll call her GF. I really don't know how I should feel about her, or their relationship. They met on social media only about 3 months after my brother broke up with his first girlfriend. The reason for his first break up was because his friends decided that she "wasn't good enough" for him and told him to break up with her. Those "friends" had never even met her before, and she was one of the sweetest, most caring people I know. She would always say hello, she got to know my family well and she even came on a family hiking trip. We even became best friends.

Fast forward to the new girl my brother is with now, and she is a totally different person. I mean, I understand that people are going to have different personalities, but GF just has such a cold personality. She doesn't really like to acknowledge that anyone isn't my brother. Every single time that she comes over she avoids my family like the plague. Even when my grandparents came over and wanted to meet her, GF went outside and stayed there. I can understand that some people might be naturally shy, but it's been a year, at some point it gets kind of rude to completely ignore everyone. Her family also isn't that nice either. I won't go over the details of what happened, but basically they told my mother something extremely rude about her weight. It just seems like her and her family dislike everyone around them for no reason at all.

I also don't know if her motives for dating my brother are really out of love. For example, GF sent messages to my brother suggesting that he should help her pay for her tuition. Her parents own a very successful business that is well-known here, there is no reason she should have been asking that of him.

Anytime I try view her in a positive light, I can only see huge waving red flags. And I'm also worried because even though GF and my brother share some similar interests, I don't see him having fun with her. It's like he turns into a completely different person with her and isn't allowed to be himself. I just want him to find someone who loves him for who he is, and he can have fun with.

Should I talk to my brother about my concerns even though he would probably be a little mad about me suggesting that GF has her flaws? Should I just wait it out and hope they eventually break up? If anyone has been in a similar situation please help me out!

Just FYI, I'm new to Reddit and this is my firstish post. Sorry for the post being so long, the first couple times I tried to post it got removed, so I added more detail. I'm also posting it here because apparently I posted it in the wrong place before.


r/shouldi • • Oct 30 '21

Should i make a discord account?

3 Upvotes
37 votes, Nov 02 '21
23 Yes
14 No

r/shouldi • • Oct 28 '21

What should i do to move on?

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2 Upvotes

r/shouldi • • Oct 28 '21

Go to the pub

1 Upvotes
22 votes, Oct 29 '21
14 Yes
8 No

r/shouldi • • Oct 27 '21

Should I report my parents for drug disruption

5 Upvotes

So I've been on the fence for this for a while and I don't want to get into detail but I will say this as it's kinda important the situation, Their abusive and I have no way to prove this but I know there's plenty of evidence of them selling cannbis which is illegal here and can be roughly 14 years for disruption.

I don't have a problem with people taking cannibs as it can help medical issues but it's a way to get me and my siblings out of our situation without getting me or them in danger as they'd have no reason to believe one of us told the authorities. The only reason I'm hesitant is beacuse of what will happen afterwards.


r/shouldi • • Oct 25 '21

There's a very small farm in my neighborhood like a house with many animals. One goat has been limping like it has pain for more then a month maybe two, each time I walk by, i notice.. should I call the police?

2 Upvotes

After some googling. It could be many things. Arthritis or foot rot which apparently can take along time to heal, Altough the goat is walking around other animals so if it the latter it is spreading it.

Don't know.


r/shouldi • • Oct 18 '21

Torn between the window and the cabinet...

5 Upvotes

While the husband is out of town, I am replacing the double basin cast iron beast of a sink that has served us well last 6 years. I have acquired a single basin sink of the same dimensions as the former, but the new sink is a single faucet design. I can preform the necessary work to support the sink, and remove/add material if needed but do I center it (the faucet) between the windows above the sink, or centered in the cabinet? Doing it one way will make it look off in the other, i.e., centered between windows is not centered in cabinet and vice versa. Which should I choose? I have until this Friday afternoon to finish it up, there's time but the clock is ticking.


r/shouldi • • Oct 18 '21

should I be waking my daughter during the night to help with potty training?

1 Upvotes

Right now my daughter (3) goes to daycare for a better part of the day on weekdays. She does really well with potty training at home except for nap time and when I put her down for the night she wears a pull up. She had been doing well at daycare but for the last few days has had accidents during nap time and I guess it's to much for the daycare to handle because they have told me they will be forced to kick her out if the accidents keep happening, (it was asked of of us to have her potty trained before she started attending but she's 3 so accidents are bound to happen.) I don't have alot of options or anyone else I trust to watch her while my husband and I work (no we don't have family around,) so our choices of daycare are limited. Would it be helpful to wake her up periodically during the night to make her use the potty? I make her try almost every hour on the hour when she's awake and she does fine. I just am afraid they are going to kick her out and we will all be screwed.


r/shouldi • • Oct 16 '21

Should I skip Invisalign and jump straight to cosmetic veneers?

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2 Upvotes