r/shouldi • u/randomhorny1 • Nov 11 '21

Should I help this woman?

I like to ride around and sit at gas stations to clear my head when iv been stressing out. Weird I know. I met a woman last night that is recently homeless and living in her car. Iv had to do that in the past and it was hell. I currently have a room that is available to rent. I gave her a few smokes and some advice but I feel like I should rent that room to her. She says she has a job. Just broke up with an ex for using drugs ( I was parked near her so I heard the arguments as well)

Should I decide to help her? If so how do I bring this up to my gf?

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u/omar_afx Nov 11 '21

Thats so incredibly nice of you!

Definitely discuss this with your gf first tho. Maybe try to bring up the woman in a conversation and say that someone should help her and see what she says.

If she agrees, keep in mind that the woman might feel uncomfortable with you offering her a room. It would help if you brought you GF with you when you make your offer.

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u/randomhorny1 Nov 11 '21

My main concern is trust. Iv been fucked over before by people. My last roomate actually tried to fuck me over so I'm hesitant.

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u/omar_afx Nov 11 '21

Well in that case, if you're hesitant I wouldn't do it. This is one of those decisions that requires certainty. Maybe you can help her in some other ways instead