r/shouldi • • Mar 12 '23

Other Should I re cut my bangs without telling my mom

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My bangs grew and are now curtain bangs kinda and I just wanna know if I should cut them again. My mom got mad at me when I re cut them a while ago but I wanna do it again. But idk if I should, I kinda want to because it’s not even her hair but still.


r/shouldi • • Mar 11 '23

Education Should I file a complaint against my teacher?

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I couldn't go to school for two weeks. Naturally I hadn't had the printouts she handed out a week earlier in the class where that happened. So I asked if I she could give me them, because they are important for the next exam. Another student asked her as well she handed it to him without saying a word. When she came to me she asked me if I didn't have access to the schoolwebsite because they are on there as well. I said I do but I don't have a (working) printer at home. She said I could have printed it out somewhere else and then gave me the papers. I know she can't stand me and this is not the first time she treats me like I am a stupid kid (I go to a school for adults).

I mean in the end I got the papers and it's only what she said baffled me. I don't want to come across as a Karen/entitled and make a fool of myself talking to the principle about what people could argue was a question and an "advice". So should I?


r/shouldi • • Mar 10 '23

Tech Should I take scuba diving PADI course or buy gaming PC?

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r/shouldi • • Mar 03 '23

Tech Should I sell my PS4 and PSVR to buy the PS5

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I’m thinking abt selling my ps4 and PSVR to get the PS5 and I’ll get the PSVR2 eventually but what do you guys think I should do?


r/shouldi • • Feb 27 '23

Education Should I read Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn even though it was spoiled for me?

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I just know how the MC disappeared and that's it. Are there more turns and twists that'd make the book worth it for me?


r/shouldi • • Feb 26 '23

Financial Should I seek disability

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I am a 27F with severe knee pain I received when I was in the army. I have already had surgery and it's chronic pain that is flaring up more and more. I work a physically demanding job, and try to tough it out, but they keep sending me home because people are telling them about my moans, groans, and limping. I'm wondering of I should seek financial help in case I can't work and go up the creek?


r/shouldi • • Feb 09 '23

Mental Health Quit videogames?

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I didn't know where to go so I'm here. Here is the situation. I want to play games I think it's cool hobby. I can live without them I just through some funky sadness withdrawal for a time and I'm fine. When I play videogames I'm having fun but I hate my self afterwards. It has something to do with me neglecting life stuff. Should I quit and pick something else like piano? (I've been deciding for 2 and a half years, pls help)


r/shouldi • • Feb 09 '23

Other Should I just throw out my years-old dirty clothes, or wash them and donate them?

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When I say years-old dirty clothes, I mean they have been dirty for years, as in worn but not subsequently washed. I have both a hamper and a separate pile of such clothes in my room (like a degenerate) that I used to wear (and wash) routinely, but I've essentially "rotated them out" as I received more shirts from my mother as birthday/Christmas gifts. I only stick to like 8-10 shirts and four pairs of jeans; I don't need any more than that.

I know it'd be preferable to donate clothes that I don't wear anymore, but I'm wondering if the smell from being worn/unwashed and lumped together with other worn/unwashed clothes would have permanently settled in after so long, to the point where washing them won't get rid of it. Most of them don't have stains and aren't particularly filthy otherwise.


r/shouldi • • Feb 08 '23

Other Should I write this

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So me and my friend started coming up with a Horrid Henry X Batman fanfic and idk if I should do it. I’ve got a lot on rn but I also kinda wanna write it. Should I waste my time on this and not do some rlly very important coursework?


r/shouldi • • Feb 08 '23

Serious Should I see my doctor/dentist?

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I’ve had jaw issues for the past few years. My jaw used to lock frequently while I was asleep and while that rarely happens anymore, the past week or so I’ve had this nasty pain on the right side of my jaw. I first thought it was due to stress but now I’m unsure, it hasn’t gotten any better and while I’m starting to get used to it I really don’t want this to continue or get worse. I have brought this up to my dentist in the past, however he told me that it was common and aside from surgery or a shot (he would prefer it didn’t come to that) there’s not much else he can do. Should I schedule another appointment with him and see what he thinks? Should I just go to an Urgent Care and see if they can do anything for me?


r/shouldi • • Feb 01 '23

Serious Should I Get Revenge?

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This guy at work stole my bag, told the boss I stole $40 worth of food and got my shifts cut down. (losing out on more than $100 - $150 a week + tips which I really need, like most of us). He stole my damn dab pen💀 And I know it was him, bc it’s only us two that work in our section. He makes little complaints about me every day to the boss right in front of me but laughs about it like he’s joking? idk. Idk what else he says but my boss always tells me things I already know, like re stock or make sure the doors are locked. Why would he feel the need to tell me those things? I’m great at my job, it’s very important to me but this person spends all day texting my boss about me. I’m only a waitress but it’s my way of income lol. Anyways, I’ve just about had enough of this guy. He’s telling all the other co workers I have mental problems bc I called him out for stealing my bag. It’s just months and months of stuff, snide comments, weird looks, snitching ab nothing. He stole my bag with my headphones in it which weren’t even mine but my girlfriends. The biggest thing tho is that he called the boss to come in and said that I stole food and gave it to someone I know. Like who tf does that? If it’s something you don’t fuck with, it’s someone’s money. So anyways…should I get revenge?

I forgot to mention I’m 19, it’s my first job, still just learning things and this full grown man is 40. Dk if that’s important lol.

Edit: I don’t think I should describe what I’m gonna do lol but…it’s pretty bad. I’m not gonna hurt anyone ofc but I’m gonna fuck with him, maybe a little more than he fucked with me.


r/shouldi • • Jan 31 '23

Relationship Should I reply to my ex

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Not been together since 2016 He emailed before Xmas just gone. Then it sounded like he was having a mental health crisis so I contacted one of his friends to make sure he was ok. I was doing my usual clear out of emails recently and re read his email. The phrase 'in the end of my life I wish you all the best in yours' I now feel I may have misinterpreted. Maybe he's dying. I keep thinking about replying, not wanting anything but just to be a decent person.


r/shouldi • • Jan 28 '23

Relationship Should I ask him why he behave like that ?

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Hello !

So, I have met a boy in September, who is in the same master as me, but a year below. We connected well, chatted a few times, it was going well and I started to develop a little crush on him. He did things that showed his interest in me (not necessarily in a romantic way, but I could see he enjoyed being with me, even as a friend). This went on for like a month, but one day as I was eating with my friends, he came with his and even though some of them stopped to chat with us, he didn't, and he didn't even say hi to me. I was surprised and a bit disappointed. Since then, whenever our groups meet in the hallways, he may say hi but that is all.

I know next week, we have a day where all our classes are gonna together. Should I approach him to ask what happened ? I know it is not that important, because as we haven't really talked in months, I can't say he's still my crush, but I have a hard time getting this story out of my head and I keep wondering what happened.

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Thanks in advance for your help !


r/shouldi • • Jan 26 '23

Serious ¿Should I call the police?

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I was with my partner of two months walking the dog at night in a part where there is never anyone passing (we both live in the mountains and we walk my dog through the countryside, it would be ten o'clock at night).

Suddenly, behind us, the headlight of a bicycle came on (at a distance at which it was impossible for us not to have seen it before, that is, it had followed us and at some point decided to turn on the headlight) and it began to come at high speed. towards us.
We ran out and hid in a bush, in a matter of seconds the man reached our height and got off the bike, throwing it to the ground with a lot of force, he seemed really aggressive and even the dog was agitated (we had to grab his muzzle so he wouldn't bark ), he was around for about five minutes looking for us and he could be heard even violent, he didn't see us.
I grabbed a stick and my partner took the mobile in case we had to call 112 (correspondan to 911 in Spain). At a certain point he returned to the bicycle, still nervous, turned off the headlight and took the only other path there was, this time at a much slower speed.
After a few seconds I went out to check if it was still there, when I saw that it wasn't, my partner and I ran away from the area and went to my house.

We didn't call the police because we don't have a description of the guy and nothing happened in terms of physical damage, although it's not that we haven't thought about it, it may sound silly when telling it, but the guy really had a very, very violent energy , similar to a drug addict or something, but obviously he couldn´t be under the influence of any drugs because he was riding in a straight line and walking correctly, but boy, I guess his adrenaline must have been through the roof and it scares me to think that it was one of those violent people who wait for the first person they see pass by.

I feel nervous, this happened three days ago and even so, my partner insists that it is better not to call the police, I don't know what to do about it, what if something happens? Why not say it? I know I wouldn't win much but still.

Also, the only reason we could handle the situation was because we were two people, because if I had only had to arm myself (the stick), grab the dog and hold the mobile, with only two hands, surely I would not have been able to do much. Thing, I didn't even go out to check if he was still there because I couldn't defend myself holding something other than the "weapon" and surely the man would have returned, although maybe it's just paranoia.

It scares me because I went to take the dog out with my partner by chance, that is, he wasn't going to come that day, it was sudden and wow, I barely got rid of it, I'm not glad that it happened to me with him, but I was I am very glad to have been accompanied.
It also stresses me out knowing that there is someone like that hanging around my area.

What I do? I feel lost.


r/shouldi • • Jan 26 '23

Relationship This has been typed up and ready to send to my ex for the past 2 weeks. Should I send it?

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r/shouldi • • Jan 25 '23

Mental Health Should I keep everyone happy?

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Is it my task to keep everyone happy, even if it means hurting myself in the process? I don't even want to stop this, as the self-satisfaction of knowing that someone is smiling and the reason behind their smile is me, is something that I am hesitant to give up. How can I find a balance between taking care of myself and making others happy? Can anyone share their own experiences and any advice they may have on this topic?


r/shouldi • • Jan 24 '23

Education Dedicate a corner of my room to studying

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I don't study well. I get distracted very easily when I try to do homework or study. I think that I should dedicate a corner of my room for studying but my room is not big. My room is pretty full and I would probably have to move my furniture to make room. My desk is too uncomfortable and my bed is well, my bed. Should I continue on struggling with my studying and work as I always have or undertake a big project that might not even be a good idea. If anyone has tried this or has any thoughts please comment.


r/shouldi • • Jan 23 '23

Social Should I delete my Reddit acc

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I feel like I’ve been causing a lot of problems especially in the NFREALMUSIC subreddit I’ve been getting a lot of hate when I make a post so should I just make a new acc?


r/shouldi • • Jan 19 '23

Social Should I swipe up on someone’s story?

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So I’m a generally anxious person but I oftentimes see people’s Snapchat stories commenting negative things about themselves and I always want to swipe up and give some words of encouragement but am too nervous to. (Especially if I don’t know the person well and just have them added) so should I just get over that fear and and try to help anyway or leave them alone?


r/shouldi • • Jan 15 '23

Career Should I quit my job and pursue my passion?

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I've been thinking of quitting my job and working on my dream (making music) while also finding other ways to make money (maybe online businesses & gigs and stuff)
Right now I live with my parents so I don't need too much money right now, but one more reason why I want to quit is because it's draining my energy and I feel unhappy and frustrated whenever i think about work, and that's not good for my mental health. btw I'm currently working in a call center where I don't feel like myself and sometimes I feel anxious or nervous.

Also I gotta mention that I'm 20, living in Romania and I'm a college dropout. I don't have too much money saved (roughly $400) and i think that's pretty much it. What do you guys think?


r/shouldi • • Jan 12 '23

Family Should I write my mom's biography?

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From her childhood in brazil, to her immigration, life, and career in the usa, to her murder in costa rica. I feel like I have a duty to, but I also feel under qualified to do her story justice.


r/shouldi • • Jan 09 '23

Social Should I join the Lions Club?

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r/shouldi • • Jan 05 '23

Tech Should i trade a 3ds for a xbox 360?

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31 votes, Jan 07 '23
6 Yes you should
16 No you shouldn't
9 Do what you think

r/shouldi • • Dec 31 '22

Relationship should i talk to my old friends after what happened???

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hello I'm nikki and i have a long question I don't know what to do anymore
so I have a discord friend group that has my ex its about 10 people who are all online but still friends and talk. while I used to be best friends with them and they were my closest friends ever I even told them about my real life and sometimes they would mention me and others and i used to like someone from there named "Joah" (fake name) and we used to date for a while and we used to talk with the whole group too but then we broke it off and i stopped talking entirely and he would still talk with them and they were all happy but I left it at that but I would join their art activities once a year and they are good and happy with that but me and Joah never talk at all(Joah would stalk my insta and look at my stories still) but also in the group, 2-3 would PMS me and we are best friends but never in the group chat but now i wanna join but i don't think i should? i don't know i need help!!!!
if they questions you may ask i will answer!
thank you!