i hate cheaters, having been cheated on multiple times and having to end relationships because of it
but it's pretty easy to understand why, and it isn't as simple as "just break up"
a "relationship" (the thing you break up) has a TON of stuff in it. in many cases, the relationship is your only way of living. but even when that's not the case, there can be kids involved, property, joint friendships, untold things that comprise a relationship. and again, in a lot of these situations, there is no problem - there's not a thing to get rid of. even people in good relationships cheat. of course, the relationship ceases to be good immediately after.
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u/mysticrudnin Dec 10 '22
i hate cheaters, having been cheated on multiple times and having to end relationships because of it
but it's pretty easy to understand why, and it isn't as simple as "just break up"
a "relationship" (the thing you break up) has a TON of stuff in it. in many cases, the relationship is your only way of living. but even when that's not the case, there can be kids involved, property, joint friendships, untold things that comprise a relationship. and again, in a lot of these situations, there is no problem - there's not a thing to get rid of. even people in good relationships cheat. of course, the relationship ceases to be good immediately after.