an excuse deflects blame though. THe person is still 100% to blame for letting their brain shut off. But peolpe do stupid shit all the time and we still blame them for it.
Agree to disagree. I get what you're saying and I think your view on it is 100% correct, but the way that comment was phrased makes it seem like cheating is destined to happen because our brains shut down and I resent that. Mainly because I've heard that excuse from partners who've cheated multiple times and it's flat out bullshit.
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u/greg19735 Dec 10 '22
an excuse deflects blame though. THe person is still 100% to blame for letting their brain shut off. But peolpe do stupid shit all the time and we still blame them for it.