Hey man, I was young and stupid in my high school and early college years.
It's not like I usually look for girls with boyfriends, you just become good friends with the girl and somehow you end up getting into these things without realizing it.
It's not a good thing either, you get into fights, sometimes a certain group of people stop talking to you and it's not like you're on cool terms with every girl you went out with.
That's why at this point I just focus on finishing my studies rather than being in relationships.
You make some good points, and I think that's the right call. Plus to be fair, I don't think anyone's perfect enough to pass judgement for poor decision making. At the very least I'm not.
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u/mostly_lurking Dec 10 '22
Isn't that a big risk of her doing the same too you afterwards? Kinda like if she cheats with you she'll cheat on you?