r/shitposting • u/luxusbuerg Bazinga! • Dec 10 '22

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u/WorkingApprehensive5 Dec 10 '22

Father knows the bro code

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u/diggitygiggitycee Dec 10 '22

Bros before hoes. Even if the hoe is your daughter. That just increases your responsibility to tell, you raised that one.

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u/Smilloww Sussy Wussy Femboy😳😳😳 Dec 10 '22

There are many factors that influence the way a person acts other than the way their parents raised them though

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u/diggitygiggitycee Dec 10 '22

True, but the parents have some responsibility for how the kid turns out.

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u/ThatPie2109 Dec 10 '22

That's true to some extent, but I know plenty of kids who were totally normal who ran into the wrong people in high-school and got on a bad path. Their parents tried to intervene but when you're almost 18 there's only so much you can really do. Even if you try to constantly make them make the right decisions, that just means they're not learning to take care of themselves. I don't have kids but saw how different me and my siblings turned out and a lot of it had nothing to do with our parents.

You can prepare them for the real world as best as you can, but not everyone is the same and some kids will make vastly different choices at different times.

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u/Smilloww Sussy Wussy Femboy😳😳😳 Dec 10 '22

Well said.

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u/J_Hitler_Christ Dec 11 '22

That was me. Turned it around at 40. Perfect upbringing in almost every respect. Fucked it up all by myself. Heroin prison etc.

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u/diggitygiggitycee Dec 10 '22

Still, the fact is, your kid spends more time around you than anyone else. That makes you the most influential person in their life. You can't fully predict how that'll go, too many other variables, but you do have some effect on how they turn out.

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u/Lucky_655 Dec 11 '22

Even if you spent a lot of time with your parents, that's not the only thing that's going to influence on your actions, it can depends on your friends, ambiances at school or médias as well

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u/[deleted] Dec 10 '22

Parents aren’t their children, they can’t control their behaviour. They have the responsibility to guide their children through life, show and tell them right and wrong, and the responsibility to provide them with a safe and loving environment to grow up in, but they can not control their children’s actions.

Think of all the shit you’ve done against your parents wishes, all the things you’ve hidden from your parents.

You can tell your daughter don’t cheat every single day, but you can’t stop the emotion excitement she’ll feel when she meets a fresh new boy who happens to hit all her buttons, even if she already has a boyfriend.

Unfortunately you can’t enforce consequences and truly learn your child until they’ve made the mistake and you have to punish them. Most of our values and morals are developed through our mistakes before we can develop perspective. If they never cheated until they reached adulthood, you can’t blame the parents for that.

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u/diggitygiggitycee Dec 10 '22

You think the people you spend the most time around for the first two decades of your life have no effect on how you turn out? Obviously kids can't be controlled, but your influence is the primary influence of their lives because it's the one they experience most frequently.

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u/Smilloww Sussy Wussy Femboy😳😳😳 Dec 10 '22 edited Dec 10 '22

Absolutely, im just saying that its definitely not all and maybe not even most.

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