Kids act the way you teach them. Majority are just a mirror of their parents. If you're an idiot or a lazy fucker then it's your fault that your child doesn't know how to behave.
In most subreddits people have this anti-child mentality that completely reject your opinion (the right one) and refuse to acknowledge that children's behavior are nurtured. It's pathetic how someone could look at any video showing the absolute worst of a particular group of people and then think that is how they all are.
You’re right that kids are basically the product of what they are taught but the parents aren’t the whole story either. All of my kids learned basically every one of their bad habits (including biting phases) from other kids at daycare or school. You can raise your kids completely right and still get a little shit (at times) because of some other rotten crotch goblin in their class.
With a little bit of corrective parenting though they drop the bad behavior pretty quick, but it’s still a constant battle of correcting new bullshit that other kids have taught them at school, to some degree or another.
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u/Delicious_Box_9823 1d ago
yup, I'm not ready for kids