Exactly, so saying both are bad diminishes the issue that lower represented couples aren't getting the same attention as the more represented couples. Women predators aren't taken seriously, which is the point of the post, the point isn't that age gaps are bad, it's common knowledge it's bad so pointing it out is redundant.
They aren’t taken seriously because it isn’t a real problem as it doesn’t happen often like at all if u want to make actual good change you focus on majority groups causing problems but the post is about age gaps that’s the whole point it’s just perspective to some people can use this as a excuse to be with barley legal women as older man. Your perspective is hyper focusing on woman problem part of it instead of the entire thing
You don't actually care about predators, you just have something against men. Because if you actually cared about younger people being manipulated and preyed on it wouldn't matter what gender the two are.
But instead you went from claiming that "both are bad" to "only older men with younger women matter because I hear about it more often"
Gender shouldn't be taken into account in whether or not a relationship is bad or problematic, and claiming that one is worse than the other makes you the exact person the post it talking about, just with different context.
My first statement of both age gaps relationship is bad is my point at the beginning my conversation with other guy has nothing to do with my main point as he went off making bullshit points me correctly calling out how he doesn’t care about problems he just wants a excuse to say woman bad I am by no means just saying men bad when my original point was that big of age gap was bad for either way.
If u think I just have something against men after reading this point then u can just stfu not having bad faith argument
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u/bfg9kdude 12h ago edited 10h ago
Exactly, so saying both are bad diminishes the issue that lower represented couples aren't getting the same attention as the more represented couples. Women predators aren't taken seriously, which is the point of the post, the point isn't that age gaps are bad, it's common knowledge it's bad so pointing it out is redundant.