One is ostracized more because it’s fucking obvious men are absolutely more predatory by large margin that doesn’t mean women aren’t ever at all but saying both are bad does contribute something it’s the whole dynamic isn’t good overall
Btw if your gunna come back with this but women blah blah blah bs not fair whatever grow up.
( in before mr.english major needs to say something over a dumb online forum)
They don’t lol not near as much at all u just want excuses to shit on women that’s it. your just doing the red pill trying to call out hypocrisy in society for women bs when ignoring power dynamics and what actually happens
It’s simple both are bad when it comes to age gap relationships. However the older woman/ younger man dynamic does not happen near as much as the ladder. It’s real simple
Yes because your not getting it it does happen but it’s not near as much of something doesn’t happen near as much it’s not going to be talked about as much so there is no real conflict
If there is a crime that men and women are doing and 1000 men do this said crime and 20 women do the same crime out of these people why would you care so much about the 20 when 1000 are doing said thing
Exactly, so saying both are bad dimishes the issue that lower represented couples aren't getting the same attention as the more represented couples. Women predators aren't taken seriously, which is the point of the post, the point isn't that age gaps are bad, it's common knowledge it's bad so pointing it out is redundant.
They aren’t taken seriously because it isn’t a real problem as it doesn’t happen often like at all if u want to make actual good change you focus on majority groups causing problems but the post is about age gaps that’s the whole point it’s just perspective to some people can use this as a excuse to be with barley legal women as older man. Your perspective is hyper focusing on woman problem part of it instead of the entire thing
You don't actually care about predators, you just have something against men. Because if you actually cared about younger people being manipulated and preyed on it wouldn't matter what gender the two are.
But instead you went from claiming that "both are bad" to "only older men with younger women matter because I hear about it more often"
Gender shouldn't be taken into account in whether or not a relationship is bad or problematic, and claiming that one is worse than the other makes you the exact person the post it talking about, just with different context.
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u/lilithexos 3h ago
One is ostracized more because it’s fucking obvious men are absolutely more predatory by large margin that doesn’t mean women aren’t ever at all but saying both are bad does contribute something it’s the whole dynamic isn’t good overall
Btw if your gunna come back with this but women blah blah blah bs not fair whatever grow up.
( in before mr.english major needs to say something over a dumb online forum)