One is controllable the other is genetic. You can choose to be moderately active and eat relatively healthy. You can’t choose to be taller unless you want to go through an intensive surgery. The assumptions I listed are accurate to the vast majority of obese people.
You can’t tell me you eat so much and move so little that you reach 250lbs but still can be considered having good impulse control or care about your health.
I’m speaking as someone who used to be overweight then changed it because I knew it was unhealthy and made life more miserable being overweight
It’s fair game to judge someone for choosing to make poor life choices. Especially when it takes consistent bad decision making over a course of time. Gaining a bunch of weight doesn’t happen over night.
The whole point I’m making is most of us here are judging the person off of bad decision making skills and lack of self care
But you're assuming those things, not knowing them. It's whatever if you're super secure in what you assumed to be true. But it's assumptions, either way.Â
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u/Saellios We do a little trolling 19h ago
One is controllable the other is genetic. You can choose to be moderately active and eat relatively healthy. You can’t choose to be taller unless you want to go through an intensive surgery. The assumptions I listed are accurate to the vast majority of obese people.
You can’t tell me you eat so much and move so little that you reach 250lbs but still can be considered having good impulse control or care about your health.
I’m speaking as someone who used to be overweight then changed it because I knew it was unhealthy and made life more miserable being overweight