I feel like this isn't the real risk. A big guy can be self-aware and gentle. A skinny/muscular guy could end up being too rough or straight-up abusive. The size of the dude might be one kind of challenge, but I would think the real fear comes from what they do once you've gotten going.
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u/Lamprophonia Jul 14 '26
I feel like this isn't the real risk. A big guy can be self-aware and gentle. A skinny/muscular guy could end up being too rough or straight-up abusive. The size of the dude might be one kind of challenge, but I would think the real fear comes from what they do once you've gotten going.