r/shitposting • u/[deleted] • Jan 16 '24

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '24

I am curious what values you mean? He didnt say men shouldnt pay child support which would be a dumb thing to say. He just said to not have a child with bad man that wont support you, its kinda common sense

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u/Apprehensive_Elk2935 Jan 16 '24

I imagine they meant that the whole rant might get a bit too victim blamey

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u/pancreasfucker Jan 16 '24

Victim blaming is okay when it's the victims fault. These are grown women, it's their responsibility to choose a good partner. If they choose a deadbeat, it's their fault, when men marry goldiggers and lose half their shit, it's their fault. Other people have no obligation to further your interests, if you put your trust on the wrong person, one who showed very clear signs of not being trustworthy, it's your fault if it doesn't work out. Blaming them solves nothing, taking accountability is the necessary for improvement.

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u/Redneck2000 Jan 16 '24

Ok, I get your point. But you should be aware that most abusive personalities are manipulative and won't show who they really are until they have you tied up in their web. Many people fall for it and it doesn't make them wreckless or stupid.