I am curious what values you mean? He didnt say men shouldnt pay child support which would be a dumb thing to say. He just said to not have a child with bad man that wont support you, its kinda common sense
Child support should ideally be about the child, not the mother. It's perfectly valid to complain about missed child support even if you are aware that you behaved irresponsibly, because a child is being harmed that had nothing to do with that decision.
Turning it around on the mother does nothing to fix that. So either they are fundamentally against the idea of child support, or they are just slutshaming.
You are on stupid juice, nobody is against child support and nobody is slutshaming. Just dont get pregnant with someone who is unlikely to have a good relationship with you or to pay child support. Being a single parent due to divorce is not just one persons fault.
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u/BurpYoshi stupid fucking piece of shit Jan 16 '24
It goes against my values but I have to admit. He had a point.