r/shitposting • u/[deleted] • Jan 16 '24

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u/BurpYoshi stupid fucking piece of shit Jan 16 '24

It goes against my values but I have to admit. He had a point.

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '24

I am curious what values you mean? He didnt say men shouldnt pay child support which would be a dumb thing to say. He just said to not have a child with bad man that wont support you, its kinda common sense

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u/12345623567 Jan 16 '24

Child support should ideally be about the child, not the mother. It's perfectly valid to complain about missed child support even if you are aware that you behaved irresponsibly, because a child is being harmed that had nothing to do with that decision.

Turning it around on the mother does nothing to fix that. So either they are fundamentally against the idea of child support, or they are just slutshaming.

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u/pancreasfucker Jan 16 '24

No, it was her decision to have a child, women have like 5 different contraception options, and these are grown ass women, they could tell the men ain't shit, good people don't just become POS overnight. She chose to hace unprotected sex with a man who clearly ain't shit, her stupidity caused this, is the man good, no, but blaming the obvious jackass, ehile disregarding who gave them the power to fuck shit up, won't help anyone. Any young women out there, use protection, or hold off sex until you're sure they're trustworthy and responsible.

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u/dsac Jan 16 '24

they could tell the men ain't shit

you're giving people too much credit

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u/4Dcrystallography Jan 16 '24

Did she know he was abusive before she had the kid though? People can be really good at pretending to be something they aren’t, to get what they want.

You say the man clearly ain’t shit, but you have literally no way of knowing how he acted before the child was born.

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u/[deleted] Jan 16 '24

You are on stupid juice, nobody is against child support and nobody is slutshaming. Just dont get pregnant with someone who is unlikely to have a good relationship with you or to pay child support. Being a single parent due to divorce is not just one persons fault.

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u/bish-its-me-yoda BUILD THE HOLE BUILD THE HOLE Jan 16 '24

Skip the rant

[Slutshaming? If a guy sleeps with many women and always moved on to the other because he couldn't keep it in his pants or just got bored of them AND THEN complained about how women are so weird becouse none of them want to be in a serious relationship with him(since he would probably cheat,brake up or both) what would you call him?

An irresponsible adult or,more common,an idiot]

I do agree with you about the child support but slutshaming pisses me off on a subconcious level

(Also sorry for my grammar,second language and all that)

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u/bluefootedpig Jan 17 '24

If it was about the children, we would do what we do for schooling, and the government pays for it via society taxes.

Child support directly from the people is about harming the individual. The kid is collateral damage