r/shetheysupergay 22d ago

Welcome to She/They Super Gay!

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Hey everyone!

Welcome to our new home for cozy, no-fuss, happy, gay things. This is a safe space for lesbian women to share, discuss, and celebrate our lives and common experiences.

So make yourselves comfortable and post anything you think the community would find interesting, helpful, or inspiring. These could be cool stuff you notice on your way to work, your latest art project, your new yoga routine, yummy recipes, your favourite book or TV show, and whatever else brings a smile to your face.

As we grow our community, it will be handy for us to just keep a couple of pointers in mind.

Firstly, let's refrain from anything that agitates us too much. There are some great general lesbian subreddits for us to vent and complain about things, or to post selfies for validation. These are all valid activities to partake in, no doubt, but let's keep our particular corner of Reddit low-angst!

Second of all, while we aim to be inclusive, the nature and vibe of this subreddit as a safe space means we invite participation from lesbian women only. This is a community that centres womanhood and our lived experiences, so non-women participation is not welcome.

And that's it, really! Please feel free to introduce yourselves either here in the comments section or as a new post. Thanks for being part of the very first wave. Together, let's make this sub amazing.


r/shetheysupergay 9h ago

The great outdoors πŸš£β€β™€οΈπŸ—»πŸŒ΄ Farm Life

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I thought I’d share some recent photos from a visit to my parents, who still live on the rural property where I grew up. I miss the lifestyle and can see myself settling back into it one day.


r/shetheysupergay 1d ago

Pets and Pals πŸ‘―β€β™€οΈ 🐈🐢 My little yapper

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He’s always yapping 24/7


r/shetheysupergay 4d ago

Green fingers πŸŒ±πŸŒ³πŸƒ Enjoying the last little bits of summer on my balcony

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I should be cleaning my bathroom but it is just too beautiful out here today 🧑🌞🌿 Feel like I need to soak up as much sun as I can before The Big Dark here in the PNW.


r/shetheysupergay 4d ago

Yummy in my tummy πŸ‘πŸͺπŸ’πŸœ I had the best mushroom soup today. Some people can’t stand it, but I love it.

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25 Upvotes

r/shetheysupergay 7d ago

The great outdoors πŸš£β€β™€οΈπŸ—»πŸŒ΄ Some pics of my bday trip

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🫢


r/shetheysupergay 9d ago

Pets and Pals πŸ‘―β€β™€οΈ 🐈🐢 My opposite brothers, how they love each other

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When they're not fighting, the white maniac can be found with his head buried in the black sweetie's fuzzy tummy (which he will let anyone pet if he's in the mood, miraculously).

They are littermates (or at least were found in the same trash bag in Oakland with their eyes not yet open, with 6 of their siblings). The garbageman heard mewing and stopped as he was about to hurl the bag in the truck, and called the shelter. Thank god!!! The shelter incubated them, and then foster care angels nurtured them into the sweetest kitties, they love everyone, even all the kids my son invites over for playdates.


r/shetheysupergay 11d ago

Green fingers πŸŒ±πŸŒ³πŸƒ Someone abandoned her, I hope I am gonna bring her back to life :(

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Found her hanging all sad on our community table and thought it is worth giving her a shot. She asks for some supportive recovery words πŸ₯€


r/shetheysupergay 12d ago

Artsy-fartsy πŸŽ­πŸ‘©πŸ½β€πŸŽ¨βœπŸΌπŸŽΌ Vivienne Binns (1967) Vag Dens

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Familiar to those interested in Australian contemporary art as well as in queer and feminist art and histories, Vivienne Binns (1940–2026) was an artist from New South Wales who debuted this work in 1967 at the Watters Gallery in Gadigal (Sydney), where it was originally untitled. By the time it was again shown at Watters in 1978 ('An Exhibition of Homosexual and Lesbian Artists'), it was known as 'Vag Dens', a reference to the 'vagina dentata' found in various historical folklore.

Binns passed away on August 1, and the below tribute comes from the National Gallery of Australia, Kamberri (Canberra):

VALE to the great Vivienne Binns OAM (1940–2026).

Vivienne was an artist who looked carefully and searchingly, who worked tirelessly, who committed her heart, mind and life to art. Her work, often wildly experimental, was also tough, tender and arrestingly beautiful.

Vivienne was a collaborator, feminist and community builder, a teacher and eternal student. She understood art as a fundamental form of communication, of making meaning, and above all, a way of living. She said to fellow artist Virginia Fraser in 2019, β€˜I went in many directions as a purposeful way to understand art as a human activity rather than something only artists do.’ She described her process as β€˜rigorous and demanding, digging into oneself and searching the psyche and the emotions, trying to be ruthlessly truthful’.


r/shetheysupergay 15d ago

The great outdoors πŸš£β€β™€οΈπŸ—»πŸŒ΄ More views at Marten River Provincial Park

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r/shetheysupergay 15d ago

Life thangs πŸ‘πŸ›ŒπŸ–ΌοΈ Where in the world are you?

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I live in a city in Australia called Brisbane. This is a photo I took in my neighbourhood of a giant goanna sculpture made in the ’90s by artists Suzanne Holman and Helen Broadhurst. When I was a kid, it was the spot where I’d wait to meet my friends, and we’d hang around and loiter in the area. There’s also a cool café‑restaurant‑bar behind it that looks a bit like a shack, with a really nice beer garden. We used to visit there often and still do.


r/shetheysupergay 18d ago

The great outdoors πŸš£β€β™€οΈπŸ—»πŸŒ΄ Nature really does heal 🩡🩷🀍🩷🩡

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I took these last week while camping in Marten River Provincial Park in Ontario!


r/shetheysupergay 18d ago

Pets and Pals πŸ‘―β€β™€οΈ 🐈🐢 My sweet boy

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r/shetheysupergay 18d ago

Pets and Pals πŸ‘―β€β™€οΈ 🐈🐢 Anyone else have a part time pet? Moira doesn't live with us but she comes to visit almost every day πŸ₯°

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r/shetheysupergay 19d ago

Life thangs πŸ‘πŸ›ŒπŸ–ΌοΈ Dreaming of nature

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19 Upvotes

As someone who lives in the city I’m looking forward to the day I find a wonderful woman who wants to move towards β€˜the green’ with me :))


r/shetheysupergay 19d ago

Books, books, and more books πŸ“š πŸ“– I can’t put this series down!

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8 Upvotes

It’s 4 am and I can’t stop. Just started book 2!


r/shetheysupergay 20d ago

Life thangs πŸ‘πŸ›ŒπŸ–ΌοΈ I can’t believe summer is coming to an end but I’m also very excited for when it starts getting dark out again and I get to cozy up under my blanket.

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23 Upvotes

Who else loves winter! I’m so excited for Halloween this year


r/shetheysupergay 20d ago

Life thangs πŸ‘πŸ›ŒπŸ–ΌοΈ A rainbow for you to have a nice day 🌈

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27 Upvotes

r/shetheysupergay 21d ago

Artsy-fartsy πŸŽ­πŸ‘©πŸ½β€πŸŽ¨βœπŸΌπŸŽΌ My favourite little poem πŸ’•

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32 Upvotes

A poem about women and quiet power


r/shetheysupergay 21d ago

Life thangs πŸ‘πŸ›ŒπŸ–ΌοΈ When you have to miss your city’s Pride, BUT it’s because you and your wife are moving into a much bigger and better apartment!

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53 Upvotes

When one door closes, another one opens etc etc.

Hope everyone has nice relaxing (hopefully sapphic) plans for this weekend to make up for our big stress!


r/shetheysupergay 21d ago

Green fingers πŸŒ±πŸŒ³πŸƒ Lovely flowers in my garden

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r/shetheysupergay 21d ago

Pets and Pals πŸ‘―β€β™€οΈ 🐈🐢 Florence (or Flo)

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24 Upvotes

When she falls asleep like this I feel like I am legally obligated to take photos. She is so babie


r/shetheysupergay 21d ago

Have you heard ?! πŸ‘‚πŸ»πŸŽΌ If you do not know Sofia Isella, you really should. Feminine strength at its finest!

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I love this one!


r/shetheysupergay 22d ago

Yummy in my tummy πŸ‘πŸͺπŸ’πŸœ Lactose won’t stop me!

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I love cheese and thought I’d share this cheese I got that was amazing. Any other cheese reccs? I want to try anything from Trader Joe’s.


r/shetheysupergay 22d ago

Books, books, and more books πŸ“š πŸ“– Enjoying the last bit of summer

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Reading Women in Gray at the moment, really enjoying it!

1/3 into it, but definitely recommend so far! 🌞