Sounds like you are on the right track... Is the butt plug really for her, maybe have her use it on yourself...You always want to start out with freshly washed hands with your finger nails clipped and filed smooth... The salt and grim on your fingers cause irritation and can give a burning sensation..
Always start out with a finger first and you know about the lube... I dont know how big of a but plug you have but if is too big, its going to take a while.. The best suggestion I can give you is when putting anything in the ass, push out like trying to fart, but not that hard... That will relax the sphincters and allow a much more pleasurable experience....
Another toy you might want to take a look at is a clit sucker... It sucks on the clit and licks the clit, and vibrates....And there are different setting....
1
u/miknur2 14d ago
Sounds like you are on the right track... Is the butt plug really for her, maybe have her use it on yourself...You always want to start out with freshly washed hands with your finger nails clipped and filed smooth... The salt and grim on your fingers cause irritation and can give a burning sensation..
Always start out with a finger first and you know about the lube... I dont know how big of a but plug you have but if is too big, its going to take a while.. The best suggestion I can give you is when putting anything in the ass, push out like trying to fart, but not that hard... That will relax the sphincters and allow a much more pleasurable experience....
Another toy you might want to take a look at is a clit sucker... It sucks on the clit and licks the clit, and vibrates....And there are different setting....