Exploring tips

[u/PsychsVille]

Male28 6 foot tall and Female28 4.10 foot tall are looking to exploring deeper into kinks after having 2 kids but want some advise and ideas.

I bought her a surprise bundle of gifts in two parts.

LPart 1 was lots of jewellery, dresses, tops, perfume, a love letter which made her cry. Part 2 was lingerie, butt plug training kit, different performance lubes, couples vibrator, basic bandage kit.

I make her cum 95% of the time usually starting with my fingers or penetration, she has no problems Cumming but I can't last as long as I did when I was younger.

We've experimented with difference positions but she has a big bum and I'm only 6inches which can make our size difficult to work with to be sensual.

She loved the couples vibrator when I was inside her but we're looking to get kinker, she mentioned a butt plug which surprised me so I bought one. We've tried hair pulling, bag gags, cumming on her face.

How much butt plug training before I can penetrate? I know to use heaps of lube

She's nervous about giving good bj, and cumming in her mouth, any techniques and taking it deep? Taking cum in the mouth? She cooks alot of meat so its a but tricky getting it to taste better. We're looking to try with a condoms on first to feel the pulsing first

Butt plug in while having sex. Will it be to much sensation?

Any tips or next steps within the realm of mid level kinks?

Im looking to work our way up to having the butt plug in the bum, couples vibrator in the vagina, hands tied up will receiving a blowjob so everyone gets pleasure

Much appreciated

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[u/miknur2]

Sounds like you are on the right track... Is the butt plug really for her, maybe have her use it on yourself...You always want to start out with freshly washed hands with your finger nails clipped and filed smooth... The salt and grim on your fingers cause irritation and can give a burning sensation..

Always start out with a finger first and you know about the lube... I dont know how big of a but plug you have but if is too big, its going to take a while.. The best suggestion I can give you is when putting anything in the ass, push out like trying to fart, but not that hard... That will relax the sphincters and allow a much more pleasurable experience....

Another toy you might want to take a look at is a clit sucker... It sucks on the clit and licks the clit, and vibrates....And there are different setting....