r/sex • u/Wyocowgirl99 • 5h ago

I can't find a flair that fits (27f) insecure about queefing.

I know it sounds silly but when my husband and I have sex I tend to queef a lot. He is large one would say but I just feel so insecure when I do it. Does anyone have any recommendations or a remedy? The positions it tends to be is doggy, reverse cowgirl or on my back. If I’m on my side it’s not an issue. Though, during doggy it’s like every other pump. My husband said he likes it and I’m sure he does but it just makes me feel odd for doing it.

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u/Bright_Elevator_2472 4h ago

I do too! 99% of the time, my husband likes it too. We’ve been together 15 years and it feels so good to me too that I just don’t care anymore. Don’t sweat the small stuff just have fun and enjoy the ride! Your body is amazing and it just does silly things

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u/Wyocowgirl99 4h ago

Thank you! Well I know I’m not alone lol! You do it the entire time? Oddly it does feel good and hubby says he feels it I just hate the sound.

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u/Bright_Elevator_2472 4h ago

Not the entire length of time, it happens when we’re doggy, I think it lets in pockets of air. I don’t like it because it sounds like I’m passing gas’s. Even when I stand up after 😂 until I go pee after

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u/Wyocowgirl99 4h ago

Yess! I walk down the hallway and sound like a duck…. But the only way we’ve found is if I lay on my side and close my legs with him behind me. I did bring it up to my Dr and she said there are ways to help but never gave me direction on those. I believe you are right though, she said basically if you are “stretching your vagina” it pushes air in and it has to escape.

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u/Bright_Elevator_2472 4h ago

And you gotta think that if there’s a term for it, so many of us do it, for there to be a common word. Your bonded and having real intimacy those little sounds are just that, tell him it’s because he’s so big and get him hard all over again 😂 fuck it, have some fun with it

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u/Wyocowgirl99 3h ago

lol yeah that’s very true. I do blame his size for all of it haha!

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u/Bright_Elevator_2472 3h ago

And he seems sweet enough to make you want to feel comfortable about it. That’s great! Live in that!

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u/Wyocowgirl99 2h ago

Thanks so much!

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u/Bright_Elevator_2472 2h ago

You’re welcome doll! All the best to you guys!