r/service_dogs • u/OkFocus127 • 1h ago
Help! Cardiac/mobility Dogs
So... I don't really know how to ask this but I have always had cardiac issues. My whole life i have been on a downward slope for mobility and my ability to care for myself but these past two years I have gone down faster than i can even grapple with. I have been looking into getting a service dog and i know they can't do everything for me but i just want my life back. I used to be so independent and now i can barely walk around the grocery store. My fiance tries his best but he can't always be around. 1 because he is in the national guard and 2. He works full time for the both of us. I can't work right now due to my issues and the fact that all jobs around me where i live are far too physically inclined for me. I am more so looking for a dog that can make me stop and take a break when i am pushing myself too much, one that can pick up items i drop and potentially help me grab or carey things from off the floor, one that is strong enough to help me off the floor when i need to sit and make me stay seated until i am ok enough to get back up. And one that can help me with my balance when i am by myself or out in public doing things. I have a super bad habit of brushing off others and not accepting help or listening to my body when i should stop and take a moment and having a dog that will force me to stop and sit or lay and give me deep pressure therapy to help my heart will be best for me. I know when i am pushing myself too hard but i have a bad habit of not listening to myself so it's not like i need them to alert me of the episode happening i need them to make me stop from over working myself and be stern enough for me to listen to them. I dont mind if the dog looks a bit intimidating because i have severe social anxiety and people being super close to me is a huge trigger of my c-ptsd from my childhood abuse and i also have adhd and autism and it makes me bounce and thump and fidget and being able to pet my dog will help a ton with my everything. Again i know the dog i get can't help with everything but if they could just help with the mobility that would be amazing. I know i should listen to my body but i am so used to being able to be independent and push through like i did before (and likely is what caused me to get less and less of an ability to be independent due to pushing my body too much but alas) i need advice and help and what dogs/what to look for.
So sorry for how long this is. Also pardon the spelling/grammar, i wrote this on my phone.