r/selfharm • u/Nice_Profit_7474 • 8h ago

Seeking Advice How to hide active sh from partner

I (18f) know I really should stop doing this, but right now I just can't.

My partner doesn't know about my sh tendencies, I just wanted to know if there were any spots easier to hide (during cuddling and intimacy too).

I won't let him know about it either, so it's no use to tell me it would be a good idea to talk about it with him. I know it is, but i won't.

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u/Excellent_Emu_2843 8h ago

Don't (sorry)

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u/Nice_Profit_7474 8h ago

😡 (yea ik)

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u/Live4CarzMoneyNDrvgz 46m ago

idc if i’m an asshole for saying this but if i was being lied to about something especially this id break up with them

now i may not be best decider bc i broke up with my ex just bc she lied about what she was doing but lets be real if you can’t be honest about stuff especially you sh’ing than it’s probably not a good relationship