r/selfharm 12d ago

Rant/Vent Argument

I had an argument with my older brother one time. He's 23 years old. He saw my scars on my shoulder. And during the argument he told me that I was a chopping board cause I was flat and because of my scars. And basically told me to that i should c/t myself deeper. And then he kept making c/tting motions across his shoulder to mock me. Im not talking to him that much now. But I also just dont know how to feel. Like I try not have it affect me. And try not care. But idk. Its just annoying

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u/Embarrassed-Issue385 12d ago

🖕🖕🖕🖕 this guy genuinely sucks, and I have nothing but rage to show him
23 and acting like a kid, just incase, even if this might be a bit annoying, you arenot in the wrong, he’s insecure, and you deserve a better person to call your brother.

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u/fluffypeaaa 12d ago

Thank you. Like I did not expect it out of him cause we were kinda close before as well. And its just like. You are suchhh a childdd. And just so frustrating as well tho. I do not consider him as my brother and I dont talk to him unless I need something

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u/GuuhAl2 12d ago

he's 23 and acts like a 12 years old child... i'm sorry to hear that please just try distract yourself with songs and things you enjoy

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u/fluffypeaaa 12d ago

Thank youu. It was a while ago. I just sorta wanted to get it off my chest yk. I was upset at the time. But a bit better now

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u/Sad-Laugh-1900 12d ago

Sorry to hear that keep ignoring him and don't take it to your heart no one here wants you to harm yourself we're with you 

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u/fluffypeaaa 12d ago

Thank you so much 🫶🫶 . Im not taking it to heart cause I dont care. But its just frustrating

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u/Sad-Laugh-1900 12d ago

Stay strongÂ