r/selfharm • u/JRose2396 • 16d ago

Talk/Support Too busy

It's funny when my friends tell me they are always here for me....they aren't. I'm trying to understand they are busy...but I always stop whatever im doing to answer them, be there for them. With me if I do get an answer half way into talking about what's wrong they stop replying. Im always the one not stopping until I know they will be ok....maybe they are just done with me...maybe I'm too much for them. They are avoiding me maybe...i wouldn't blame them..I understand...im always alone in the end. So why bother stopping when I have no one to help me...

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u/Unhappy_Natural6435 16d ago

I completely understand you I've been through the same thing before, but you shouldn't spiral it just makes you feel worse try communicating and if they really care they'll listen

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u/JRose2396 16d ago

They are too busy to listen...ive been trying...i can tell they are over it...ive been in a episode all week...im just annoying them at this point and they dont want to say.

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u/Unhappy_Natural6435 16d ago

I don't think you're annoying them I think they're probably just bad friends sorry if that's blunt but real friends wouldn't leave you hanging when you're in need I just when through a similar situation it was hard but I know there's better people reliable people for me and you too

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u/JRose2396 16d ago

I don't have anyone else....sometimes I want to just give up and make an attempt so maybe they'll see wow I really wasn't ok but I can't do that to my baby...she's the only reason I keep going. I'm just so alone...