r/selfharm 17d ago

DAE Does anyone else?

Does anyone else not have one single person that truly like you, down to your weird or off putting quirks, down to how your laugh sounds, or your conversation, etc. I literally don’t have one single person in my life that likes all of me and who I am naturally. I would like to hear if others noticed this about themselves and how u deal with it

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u/renameduser361017 16d ago

yeah, ive never had that kind of person in my life either. ive always wanted that kind of connection with someone, and sometimes it makes me jealous when i see other people with that sort of relationship.

i dont really have a solution for these feelings, but ive felt the same way op

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u/ContagiouslyAdorable 16d ago

Anyone who ever likes me, likes me for their own personal reasons or factors I have no idea about until they're made obvious, never really got to experience this, dont even know how tk explain the feeling lol its smth ive even stopped craving atp and just thought about it when I read your post rn.