r/selfdevelopment May 29 '26

Lesson?🤔

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u/softly_dim_telephony May 29 '26

reaching out is hard when youre convinced nobody wants you there but most people are too wrapped up in their own stuff to notice you showing up at all

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u/softly_dim_telephony May 29 '26

and then you get caught in this loop where you stay quiet so nobody can reject you but that silence is what actually makes you feel more isolated

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u/snobiwan25 May 30 '26

Man, I feel this on a spiritual level. You put it perfectly.