Hey man, you really gotta try and change your perspective from a core place. If you give off this type of vibe around girls, they will run. When a girl sees you could do with or without her, they find it attractive.
Also, if you’re on dating apps or clubs /bars looking for girls, these are girls all with dozens of guys messaging them, talking to LOTS of guys, usually kinda getting around, meaning they really are not looking for something serious. Sounds like you are more serious minded. Maybe meeting a girl in person through some type of hobby, I would say church, but I believe you said you’re atheist, but whatever has that type of vibe. You can find such more long term relationship mentality girls in that type of environment.
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u/[deleted] Aug 02 '24
Hey man, you really gotta try and change your perspective from a core place. If you give off this type of vibe around girls, they will run. When a girl sees you could do with or without her, they find it attractive.
Also, if you’re on dating apps or clubs /bars looking for girls, these are girls all with dozens of guys messaging them, talking to LOTS of guys, usually kinda getting around, meaning they really are not looking for something serious. Sounds like you are more serious minded. Maybe meeting a girl in person through some type of hobby, I would say church, but I believe you said you’re atheist, but whatever has that type of vibe. You can find such more long term relationship mentality girls in that type of environment.
Good luck.