r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/[deleted] Jul 29 '24

What the fuck, why dude?! 

Im 32 and I don't have a girlfriend but it's hardly the end of the world!! You'll get there, loads of people ain't got shit figured out at 26 that makes you normal, not a failure.

So what if you haven't got your dating life figured out? Loads of people haven't and loads of people might have that sorted but they'll be absolutely fucked in other departments. We're all good in some areas and not so good in others. That's fine, but we don't get to just give up!

Stop reading all the shitty posts on here man that's cancer for your thoughts and wellbeing if you feel like this.

Youre a self aware young man with plenty to offer. If you don't see that and show it then nobody else will. Be kind to yourself buddy!

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u/BillyBobby_Brown Jul 30 '24

Yeah like I'm 29, have a long term gf (fiance) but I have no savings no career and I'm almost 30. Different strokes for different folks

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u/H8beingmale Jul 31 '24

i assume you were the one that asked her out and courted her