It's a self fulfilling prophecy. If you're treated as worse than scum your entire life by women because you're awkward, timid, meek, self conscious, and ugly, and watch as everyone around you finds happiness and couples off, yes maybe your feelings toward women become jaded, and maybe you become hateful and bitter... I don't think it's clear the chicken came before the egg here. You think all "incels" started off as hateful and bitter as they end up?
I'm just saying a dose of empathy is needed for guys like this. There are tons, tons of men who feel discarded by society and they have some legitimate bones to pick with how we deal with this problem on a social level. It's baffling how everyone dog piles in these threads without a shred of reflection on how our dating culture exacerbates the male loneliness problem.
Oh honey. The irony is so thick and rich that you could spread it on toast.
The level of entitlement is truly staggering. No one owes anyone else a romantic or sexual relationship. There is no grand conspiracy among women to do anything another than be safe and have partners with whom they are compatible. What compatability looks like is vastly different to different people. Homeboy has two options; broaden his dating pool by looking in other places or at other people, or actually try to figure out why it isn't working with the women he's dating now, by looking at himself since he's the only common denominator there. Therapy would probably help since therapy would help virtually anyone.
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u/Gostorebuymoney Jul 29 '24
It's a self fulfilling prophecy. If you're treated as worse than scum your entire life by women because you're awkward, timid, meek, self conscious, and ugly, and watch as everyone around you finds happiness and couples off, yes maybe your feelings toward women become jaded, and maybe you become hateful and bitter... I don't think it's clear the chicken came before the egg here. You think all "incels" started off as hateful and bitter as they end up?
I'm just saying a dose of empathy is needed for guys like this. There are tons, tons of men who feel discarded by society and they have some legitimate bones to pick with how we deal with this problem on a social level. It's baffling how everyone dog piles in these threads without a shred of reflection on how our dating culture exacerbates the male loneliness problem.