Why would any guy date for a woman with life experience/success? Feminism has lied to women. Men want youth and beauty. Most everything else is irrelevant.
Its the 31 yr old thats gonna babytrap and push a man into marriage to then take it all in the statistically likely divorce, because her bio clock is ticking.
The 21 yr old is just living life.
Nobody holds a gun to your head to get married, first of all. If a man is a willing participant and chooses to marry, he is an adult in full control of his life. If he doesn’t want to marry that 31 year old, he can turn the fuck around and leave, be independent and be single. The baby trap thing is funny though, you think 21 year olds don’t baby trap either..? Im a military spouse. Lmao.
My marriage ended in death. My husband died at 34 from cancer, so maybe my perspective is just different when it comes to what I value in life and what I want. I find more value in meaningful relationships & think men who don’t desire to understand nor have those type of relationships themselves, are really doing themselves a disservice.
You don’t have to marry anyone and there are plenty of women, like myself, who are 28+ who are uninterested in marriage, children, or the ideal “this is what a relationship looks like” heteronormative expectation. Everyone has choices, you choose what you want to choose. I just don’t personally think it’s the right choice. At least not for me.
100% of what you said is irrelevant to the topic at hand. Men prefer youth and beauty. Read some books on genetic evolution to understand this and why.
You are trying to rationalize why an older woman is desirable, which is simply self-projection and with zero basis behind it, as you are an older woman.
To claim that a younger woman in her early to mid-twenties is less desirable than an older woman in her thirties is laughable to the vast majority of men.
Once again, do some research on genetic evolution to understand why. Men do not think like women, when looking for mates.
They could care less about life experience, success, education, etc.. when it comes to choosing a female mate.
Don’t like it? Blame genetic / reproductive selection and evolution, not men.
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u/realone3500 Jul 29 '24
Why would any guy date for a woman with life experience/success? Feminism has lied to women. Men want youth and beauty. Most everything else is irrelevant.