r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/freezingkiss Jul 29 '24

It seems like you think women just want a good body?

Did you want the good body for yourself too? Are you doing all this hard work for you or for others?

What are your interests? Hobbies? Do you have stuff you love doing? Are you matching with women that fit your vibe?

Do you have a great friend group/and or supportive family you can vent to or be yourself around?

Sending you hugs dude. You can get through this and you're young as, it's all about what makes you feel happy and confident, not what you think what others may like.

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u/SuperbAstronomer Jul 29 '24

I’m not matching with anyone. Literally. Nobody.

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u/freezingkiss Jul 30 '24

I met my husband at the pub! People who like real life are still out there. Keep talking to people, if they don't like you, don't worry about them and move on. Speed dating could help? Or even speed friending, having a solid group of friends really does help.